When I was a junior high school student in 1980. God gave me a gift, it was happiness.

One weekend. I went to visit my grandparents in the countryside. 【小题1】.

Several days later when I woke up at the hospital. I realized I had to spend the rest of my life without arms. 【小题2】. Even I was full of sad. But slowly I knew I had to face the feet and got over it. I couldn’t get my arms back even though I cried every day.

However, it's easier said than done. 【小题3】. I got so much from my past story. From then on, I could treat my life with a normal mind. But in our daily life, I often see my classmate get worried about little things: 【小题4】; their bus comes late; they don't have a mobile phone but others have. But I only enjoy life, I was lucky to realize from an accident: It's a waste of our life to focus on what you have lost. We should always think of what we have. So why are so many people unhappy? Someone may say, “My whole life would improve if I have a new car.” But when you get the car and what happens? For a whole week you are walking on air. Then you go right back to being unhappy.

【小题5】. It's in our heart. It’s a state of mind, even though you own the whole world, you may still feel unhappy. Happiness comes from mastering the art of thanks taking pleasure in what you really have.

In our life, we all try to get better every day. We all set dreams in our life.

To win the life race, we work hard and with the time we finally achieve it. 【小题1】 It is all right and it should be in that way.

But our happiness lasts for a very short time when we start comparing the things with others. 【小题2】 If today you are happy just because you have more than others, then be ready to lose your happiness because it will start disappearing when you see someone else having more than you. 【小题3】 But it will only take a few days to end your feeling of joy if it is based on (根据) what others have.

Actually you can never compare yourself with others. You may know yourself completely. You may know what you have and how you got that. But you can never know what someone else has and how he got that. You can compare one factor (要素) but you never even know other factors. 【小题4】 Respect every one for what he is and love yourself for whatever you are.

If you still want to compare, compare with yourself. 【小题5】 Keep yourself growing without comparing them to anyone else. It is good to get inspired from someone you think is better than you. But do not get caught by comparison.

Always remember that you are the only you. Just like everyone else.