When you speak, write a letter, or make a telephone, your words carry a message. People communicate with words.
A.People can communicate in many other ways. |
B.But do you know people also communicate without words? |
C.If you make noise in class. |
D.When you put up your hands in class. |
E.Magazines, TV, radio and films all help us communicate with others. |
F.Other things can also carry messages. |
In a study, scientists noted that teenagers who showed prosocial(亲社会的) behavior towards strangers had higher self-esteem(自尊) a year later. The same effect was not reported in those who showed similar behavior such as helping, sharing and comforting towards their families and friends.
“This study shows that young people who help people they do not know tend to feel better about themselves over time,” explained Professor Laura Padilla Walker.
“It suggests there might be something about helping strangers that influences one’s moral identity(道德认同) or opinions of self(自我). It happens in a more important way than helping friends or family members, although these are beneficial behavior as well.”
Padilla Walker and her research team said that teens showed higher levels of self-esteem after just one year of prosocial behavior.
The teens’ levels of prosocial behavior were judged using self-reports. During the process, they were asked how they felt when reading sentences like “I help people I don’t know, even if it’s not easy for me.”
She added that prosocial behavior could be mainly useful for teens who tend to focus on themselves. She also said that helping the people who were less fortunate than they were might benefit them as much as the people they were helping.
“It is best if teens can directly see the benefit of their help on others. This can increase gratitude(感恩) in young people and help them to focus less on their own problems.”
“Such behavior will also encourage them to meet new people, which will also improve their confidence,” she said.
【小题1】Who will have higher confidence according to the text?A.Those who comfort their friends. | B.Those who share with family members. |
C.Those who help the less lucky. | D.Those who care for their classmates. |
A.Ordinary. | B.Strange. | C.Terrible. | D.Useful. |
A.They may get more gratitude from others. |
B.They will pay less attention to their personal problems. |
C.They are encouraged more by their friends. |
D.They will pay more attention to themselves. |
A.Teens are likely to help the poor people. |
B.Teens are grateful to those who help them greatly. |
C.Teens who help strangers will become more confident. |
D.Teens become much happier by helping others. |
One day they found themselves in a forest. They were tired so they sat down and Jehdi fell asleep.
As Jehdi slept, Hassan saw a wasp (黄蜂) coming from his friend’s nose. It flew toward a pine tree (松树), circled it three times, and then returned to Jehdi’s nose.
When Jehdi woke he said, “Hassan, What a dream! Imagine a big pine tree, like that one there. A wasp flies around it and its buzz (嗡嗡叫) seems to say, ‘You must dig here.’ I dig and I find a big box of gold.”
“Yes, a strange dream,” replied Hassan. “Why don’t you dig around that tree and see if it’s true?”
“My friend, it was just a dream and anyway it’s too hot to dig.”
Hassan said, “If you do not want to dig, I will. Sell your dream to me.”
“How much will you pay?” asked Jehdi.
Hassan agreed to pay 300 coins.
“Never have I made such a business deal. How naïve (天真的) you are, Hassan!”
The two friends then went to the pine tree Jehdi had dreamed about. Jehdi stood there with a smile on his face to see Hassan start digging. But he laughed on the other side of his face when Hassan dug up a huge box of gold.
After this, Hassan had so much gold that he lived a rich life until his death.
Jehdi often visited him. He would say, “Well, Hassan, how are you? I have come to see my dream.” They would pat(轻拍) each other on the back and laugh. But each time Jehdi went home sadly. He could never buy back his dream.
【小题1】In Jehdi’s dream, he ________.
A.is attacked by a wasp | B.digs up a box of gold |
C.talks with a wasp | D.becomes a wasp himself |
A.he doesn’t believe his dream is true | B.he is lazy and doesn’t want to work |
C.he is too rich to care about the gold | D.he can’t find the tree from his dream |
A.smart | B.wise | C.stupid | D.kind |
A.was unhappy about something one was once happy about |
B.was excited at something one was once disappointed by |
C.laughed so much that one’s face change |
D.laughed at other people’s mistake |
So when someone has hurt you, calm down first. Take plenty of breathe deeply and think of something that gives you pleasure: a beautiful scene in nature, someone you love. Don’t wait for an apology(道歉). “Many times the person who hurt you may never think of apologizing,” says Dr. Luskin. “They may have wanted to hurt you or they just don’t see things the same way. So if you wait for people to apologize, you could be waiting a very long time.” Keep in mind that forgiveness does not necessarily mean accepting the action of the person who makes you angry. Mentally going over your hurt gives power to the person who brought you pain. Instead, learn to look for the love, beauty and kindness around you. Finally, try to see things from the other person’s perspective(视角). You may realize that he or she was acting out of ignorance (无知), fear, even love. To achieve the perspective, you may write a letter to yourself from that person’s point of view.
【小题1】When someone has deeply hurt you, it’s not easy for you to ________.
A.feel very angry | B.let go of your anger |
C.keep remembering it | D.let your anger appear |
A.Take much breathes deeply. | B.See things in a different way. |
C.Keep yourself calm. | D.Go over your hurt. |
A.Try to make sure why you get hurt. |
B.Write a letter to the person who hurt you. |
C.Tell yourself to accept what others have done to you. |
D.Think about pleasant things and forget about the hurt. |
A.we are not patient enough |
B.we’d feel worse accepting others’ apology |
C.people seldom want to apologize |
D.people don’ t mean it when they apologize |
A.how to keep yourself from being hurt |
B.how to stay mentally healthy |
C.how and when to stay calm |
D.why and how to forgive others |
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