The following are some methods:
·Be polite. Say “Hello” or “have a nice day”. Say that he or she looks nice.
·Be positive(肯定的). Think of five good things about the person. Maybe he or she is always on time or works hard.
·Really listen when the person talks. Ask questions to understand the person better.
【小题1】According to the passage, people had better(最好) be __________ those they don’t like.
A.careful(小心) with | B.friendly to |
C.strict(严厉) with | D.rude(粗鲁) to |
A.Stop talking | B.Go away |
C.Have a nice day | D.Don’t smile |
A.a map | B.a cook book |
C.a story book | D.a magazine(杂志) |
A team of US psychologists(心理学家)have found that talking to another person for ten minutes a day helps with memory.
“Socializing(交际)is just as useful as more traditional kinds of mental(脑力的)exercises in boosting memory and intellectual performance,” Oscar Ybarra, a psychologist at the University of Michigan Institute for Social Research, said in a statement.
In one investigation(调查), they analyzed data on 3610 people, aged 24 to 96.
They find that the higher their level of social interaction(交流), the better their cognitive(认知的)functioning. Social interaction includes getting together or having phone chats with relatives, friends and neighbors.
In another experiment, the researchers conducted laboratory tests on 76 college students, aged 18 to 21, to evaluate(评估)how social interactions and mental exercises influenced the results of memory and intellectual performance tests.
The students were divided into three groups:the social interaction group had a discussion of a social issue for 10 minutes before taking the tests; the mental activities group completed three tasks(including a reading comprehension exercise and a crossword puzzle)before the tests; and a control group(对照组)watched a 10-minute film of the Seinfeld television show.
“We found that short-term social interaction lasting for just 10 minutes improved the students’ intellectual performance as much as working on so-called ‘mental’ activities for the same amount of time,” Ybarra said.
The study was expected to be published in the February issue of the journal Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin.
【小题1】What does the underlined word “boosting” in the second paragraph probably mean?A.Improving. | B.Reducing. | C.Preventing. | D.Training. |
A.Having a talk with a neighbor. | B.Attending a birthday party. |
C.Watching TV at home alone. | D.Calling your classmates |
A.judge the influence of social interaction on memory and intelligence |
B.find out what is real social interaction |
C.learn how much time is needed for social interaction |
D.show the function of people’s cognition |
A.Mental exercises make your memory better. |
B.Different people have different ways of communication. |
C.Communicating with others keeps you healthy. |
D.Social interaction makes you smart. |
②Girls sit by girls and boys sit by boys. Adults sit together and young people choose another young person to sit near. But it goes further than this. We even choose to sit near someone who looks like us. People with glasses are more likely to sit near other people with glasses. People with long hair sit closer to other people with long hair.
③We seem to believe that people with similar habits or hobbies will share similar experiences and we are more likely to be accepted by people like ourselves or even, we think we may be safer with people who look like us. Sometimes that’s true but it’s a pity if we always stay with the same people, the same group. The danger in always staying in our comfort zone (舒适区)is that we just recycle the same opinions, the same tastes and the same ideas. We lose the chance to learn something new, find out about interesting things, hear funny stories and discover difference.
④When we always stay with the same people, how can we break down the barriers which prevent us from getting to know people with different ideas? And how can we avoid the ignorance (无知)? If you want to live in a society that opens to changes, new things and different opinions, be the cat among the pigeons(鸽子).
⑤Move out of your comfort zone. Go and sit next to someone different. And don’t just sit there in silence. Say hello. Ask a question. Start a conversation. That’s how we make friends. That’s how we learn about people. That’s how we open our minds to new ideas. That’s how we live an exciting life.
【小题1】From the passage, we know that people prefer sitting by someone who .
A.is like themselves | B.has a sense of humor |
C.is open-minded | D.lives an exciting life |
A.remain comfortable and special |
B.find out more interesting things |
C.be accepted easily and feel safe |
D.discover differences among themselves |
A.Paragraph 1 | B.Paragraph 2 |
C.Paragraph 3 | D.Paragraph 4 |
A.联系 | B.纽带 |
C.隔阂 | D.熟悉 |
A.To tell us just to be ourselves in social life. |
B.To introduce ways to learn about the world. |
C.To explain how people communicate with others. |
D.To encourage us to meet people of different kinds. |
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