Working on a team is a good thing, but sometimes it can bring you some trouble. To create a successful team, good communication is the most necessary thing for both team members and leaders. Here are some helpful suggestions.
Don’t criticize (批评) any people. When someone on your team does something wrong, don’t criticize him. You can help him find out the reasons and then help him solve the problem. Criticizing your team members too often may make them keep away from you. As a result, you may feel lonely. |
Think about other people’s ideas carefully. When someone tells you about his ideas, you should think about them carefully, no matter how silly they may seem. This shows you are interested in his ideas, and it will make him feel good. |
Listen to other people actively. When someone is speaking to you, you need to listen to him actively. If you’re unclear about something, you should ask him about it. By doing this can clear up your confusion (困惑) before moving on. |
Share your ideas with other people. When you have a new idea, talk about it with team members. This helps to improve the idea. Besides, it also helps to improve relationships with your team members. |
【小题1】What is the most necessary thing to create a successful team?
A.Share ideas. | B.Listen to others. |
C.Communicate well. | D.Deal with problems. |
A.They will feel lonely. | B.They will be afraid of you. |
C.They will keep away from you. | D.They will correct their mistakes. |
A.Smile at him. | B.Think about it carefully. |
C.Ask him why he told me. | D.Get angry and criticize him. |
A.Try to ask us to listen to others. | B.Try to encourage us to share ideas. |
C.Try to tell us how to join a good team. | D.Try to give us some useful suggestions. |
In an art lesson, just while the teacher was out, a big boy took away my pencil case, threw it across the room and sat back down. Later on, he took my schoolbag and pulled it towards him. I pulled back the schoolbag from his hand and for the first time, I pushed him away and hit him on the back. In the rest of the lesson, I did nothing but imagined what was happening next.
Then the teacher came to me,“Peter, are you OK?”
“Yes,” I answered.
“No, you are not. Come to my office after class,” he said.
There we had a long talk. He made me smile and I became confident(自信的) again. He taught me some life lessons, and said, “Get up, and don't be a bully yourself, but remember you are stronger inside, and if the bullies see this, they will stop.”
I remembered these words. From then on, every time I walked to school, I put my head high in the way, and the bullying soon stopped.
【小题1】Why was Peter often bullied in the seventh grade?
A.Because he had no friends to help him. |
B.Because he didn't study well. |
C.Because he came from a poor family. |
D.Because he was quiet and not confident. |
A.He took away the other's pencil case. | B.He made fun of another student. |
C.He fought back for the first time. | D.He told the secret to the teacher. |
A.Lucky. | B.Worried. | C.Excited. | D.Confident. |
A.In the classroom. | B.At the teacher's house. |
C.At Peter's home. | D.In the office. |
A.believe in himself | B.work hard on his lessons |
C.have a stronger body | D.tell it to the teacher at once |
We can make mistakes at any age. Some mistakes we make are about money. But most mistakes are about people. One might say, “Did Jerry really care when I broke up (分手) with Helen?” “When I got that great job, did Jim really feel good about it, as a friend? Or did he envy (妒忌) my luck?” When we look back, doubts (怀疑) like these can make us feel bad.
Why do we go wrong about our friends? Sometimes what people want to say hides their real meaning. And if we don’t really listen, we miss the feeling behind the words. If someone tells you “You’re a lucky dog”, is he really on your side? If he says, “You are a lucky guy.” That’s being friendly. But if he says “a lucky dog”, there’s a bit of envy in those words. Maybe he doesn’t see it himself. But he puts you down a little if he brings in the “dog”. What he may say is that he doesn’t think you deserve (应得) your luck.
“Just think of all the things you have to be thankful for” is another phrase that says one thing and means another. It could mean that the speaker is trying to get you to see your problem as part of your life as a whole. But is he? The thought in this phrase is that your problem isn’t important. It’s telling you to think of all the starving (挨饿的) people in the world when you haven’t got a date for Saturday night.
How can you tell the real meaning behind someone’s words? One way is to take a good look at the person talking. Do his words fit the way he looks? Does what he says agree with the tone (语气) of voice, his posture (立场), or the look in his eyes? Stop and think. The minute you spend thinking about the real meaning of what people say to you may save another mistake. So when you hear someone saying, please try to know what he really means. Don’t just listen to what he says with your ears but feel the words he uses with your head. In this way you may make fewer mistakes.
【小题1】The reason why we go wrong about our friends is that _________.A.we never believe what they say |
B.we cannot listen carefully when they talk |
C.they sometimes say one thing but mean another |
D.they become angry when we know what they really mean |
A.his tone, his posture and the look in his eyes |
B.his real meaning of what he says |
C.his way the person is talking |
D.his look when he is talking |
A.what to do when we listen to others talking |
B.how to tell the real meaning behind the words |
C.what to do when we know the wrong we will do |
D.how to avoid mistakes when talking with people |
How do you feel when your teacher asks you to work with other students in groups? Do you like to work together with others or work alone?
The Program for International Student Assessment(PISA)did a survey of students’ ability to work together in groups. They found that top students who do well on tests by themselves are better at working with other people. The finding was true for many countries. Students in Japan, South Korea, Finland and Canada, where test scores are high, also do well in working together to solve problems.
But this was not sure for every country. The collaborative(合作的)skills of top students in China, who also have high scores, are not high. “One reason might be that Chinese parents and teachers pay too much attention to grades,” said Zhao Zhongxin, the president of the Chinese family Education Association(CFEA). “Students have a lot of exam pressure and they think school is a place for competition. However, collaborative skills are very important for the students to solve the problems” he added, “luckily, more Chinese parents and teachers are realizing the importance of this and are thinking of ways to help students improve them.”
Another interesting finding from PISA survey was that girls are better than boys at working together. They said girls are more willing to listen to others’ opinions.
PISA also found that the classroom environment might influence how well students work with others. In classes there are a lot of activities that require communication, such as class discussion, students like to work with others.
【小题1】The underlined word “PISA” in the passage means “________” in Chinese.A.国际学生评估项目 | B.国际学生竞赛项目 | C.国际学生合作项目 | D.国际学生探究项目 |
A.school is only a place for cooperation | B.Chinese students like tests, but they don’t like cooperation |
C.Chinese parents and teachers pay too much attention to grades | D.more Chinese parents and teachers are realizing the importance of collaborative skills |
A.Boys are better at working together than girls. | B.We should create better classroom environment. |
C.Chinese top students can hardly work together with others. | D.Top students in Finland don’t have the ability to work together in groups. |
A.Education. | B.Science. | C.Health. | D.Culture. |
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