Some people think only school children do not agree with their parents, however, it is not true.
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Communication is a problem for parents and children of all ages. If it’s hard for you to communicate with your parents, don’t worry about it. Here are some advice for you to bridge the generation gap (代沟).
Don’t argue with your parents. Don’t get to your parents when you are angry. Your parents probably won’t consider your ideas if you are shouting at them. And you can’t express yourself well if you are angry. Go someplace to cool off. Make sure you understand why you are unhappy. Then think about what you want to say to your parents. If you don’t think you can speak to them at the moment, try writing a letter.
Try to reach a compromise (和解). Perhaps you and your parents disagree on something. You can keep your disagreement and try your best to accept each other. Michael’s mother didn’t agree with him about buying a motorcycle. They argued over it. But they finally came to a compromise. Michael bought the motorcycle, but only drove it on certain days.
Of course, your parents might refuse to compromise on something. In these situations, it is especially important to show love and respect to them. Showing respect will keep your relationship strong.
Talk about your values. The values of your parents are probably different from those of your own. Tell your parents what you care about, and why. Understanding your values might help them see your purposes in life.
A good relationship with your parents can make you a better and happier person. It is worth having a try!
【小题1】The passage tells us ________ have a communication problem.A.parents and other people | B.school kids and their parents | C.parents and children of all ages |
A.don’t get to them often | B.write a letter to them | C.don’t speak to them politely |
A.to make yourself happy | B.to get you quiet and relaxed | C.to have a good rest | D.to hide yourself quickly |
A.have a talk with them often | B.keep away from them | C.agree with them all the time |
A.parents and children should not have a generation gap |
B.parents should show love and respect to their children |
C.there are some good ways to bridge the generation gap |
Do you like watching historical TV shows? Some parents worry that sometimes they are not true. Some teachers think watching them can make some students interested and that they will do more to find out the truth. What do students think of them?
Zhang Jinshuo, 13:
They can help us learn details (细节) of history. For example, from the history book, we may learn about the Three Kingdoms (三国) But by watching Romance at the Three kingdoms, I get to know what happened among them.
Jiang Chenming, 13:
Many students are not interested in history. But they won’t mind watching historical TV shows because of famous actors and exciting stories. So I think it is a good way to increase students’ interest in learning history.
Zhou Muhan, 13:
We don’t have much time to watch historical shows. If we want to know something about history, we can read books. It saves time and we can practice reading at the same time.
Zhao Kai, 13:
In most historical TV shows, there are many love stories. I think it is not good for children. Also, in TV shows, heroes (英雄) are often perfect. That is not real history. So I think that we should read history books to learn the true history.
【小题1】Whose idea is similar to some parents?A.Zhang Jinshuo’s | B.Jiang Chenming’s | C.Zhou Muhan’s | D.Zhao Kai’s |
A.提高 | B.降低 | C.保持 | D.扰乱 |
A.Zhang Jinshuo knows more about Three Kingdoms by watching the shows. |
B.Jiang Chenming thinks students are interested in famous stars in the shows. |
C.Zhou Muhan thinks reading history books takes more of our study time. |
D.In Zhao Kai’s eyes, heroes are not perfect in real history. |
A.It’s about how students should learn history. |
B.Its’ about when students can watch TV shows. |
C.It’s about whether students should read history books. |
D.It’s about ideas on watching historical TV shows. |
Recently researchers from the University of Michigan have looked at 317 pairs of mothers and children. Families reported on children’s eating habits and mothers’ behaviors and attitudes toward feeding when children were 4, 5, 6, 8 and 9.
They found that the children could be put into three groups: low pickiness (29%), medium pickiness (57%) and high pickiness (14%). The pickiest eaters would not often eat vegetables, or were very nervous about new foods. And the pickiest eating was associated (相关的) with parents restricting (限制) food choices and forcing children to eat. Less picky eating was associated with fewer restrictions on foods and less pressure to eat. Children who had problems controlling their emotions were also more likely to be picky eaters.
In an editorial (社论) published with the study, Nancy Zucker of the Duke University School of Medicine wrote that the pickiest children probably have “thousands of negative (消极的) memories about food”. They wrote that it’s critical to focus on pleasant experiences.
Pesch said that kids shouldn’t be made to eat everything on their plate if they don’t want to. She also said parents shouldn’t tell their kids they can have dessert only if they eat their vegetables. Some experts say it’s best to expose (使接触) children to food many times—even if they don’t eat it—so they get used to it. Parents should introduce kids to many different kinds of foods, show that they themselves enjoy different kinds of foods, and make meals a fun time that the whole family can enjoy. Older kids can also help choose and prepare the food they will eat.
【小题1】What was the pickiest eaters’ problem?A.They had a healthy eating habit. |
B.They showed no interest in trying new foods. |
C.They never ate vegetables. |
D.They were put less pressure to eat. |
A.who have a terrible memory about food |
B.who have a stable mood |
C.who have an enjoyable eating experience |
D.who take exercise every day |
A.good at cooking different kinds of foods |
B.clever at looking after their children |
C.strict about their children’s food |
D.busy with their housework |
A.the importance of feeding techniques |
B.some tips on making children not be picky |
C.the ways to let children eat happily |
D.some advice about preparing the food |
Dear Daniel, I am used to having a lot of friends. But now my old friends each has made their own best friend, and I don’t have one. I’m afraid of being alone and I even can’t pay my full attention to study. Could you tell me how to deal with this? I don’t want to bother (打扰) my old friends’ new life. Dave |
Dear Dave, It may be hard at first but finally you’ll get used to this. I had a lot of friends in South Korea-some very close-but I moved away for work. Now I’m in Beijing and I usually eat dinner by myself. The fact is that you will always meet new people and make more friends than you can even imagine. But you will also say goodbye to most of them later. How can you deal with loneliness? Look at the caterpillar (毛毛虫). It endures (忍耐)being by itself for a while, but finally becomes a beautiful butterfly. So don’t fear loneliness. Instead, work on yourself and make yourself into a butterfly. Learn a skill, practice your hobby and do whatever you are interested in. Right now, I’m learning to play the violin and draw pictures. I like being busy. Become the one you want to be, and then fly out into the world like a butterfly. That’s the important part. |
【小题2】Dave’s loneliness has influenced his study.
【小题3】Daniel is having a hard time living in Beijing.
【小题4】Daniel teaches Dave to be patient by telling the story of a butterfly.
【小题5】In Daniel’s opinion, Dave should pay more attention to the improvement of himself.
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