The most basic and powerful way to connect with another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our full attention.
When people are talking, there is no need to do anything but listen to their words. Just take them in. Listen to what they are saying. Care about it. Caring is even more important than understanding. It has taken me a long time to believe in the importance of saying “I’m so sorry” when someone is in trouble.
One of my friends told me that when she tried to tell her story, people often broke in to tell her that something similar happened to them. For some reason or other, her trouble became a story about them. In the end, she stopped talking to most people. She was just too lonely. We connect through listening. When we interrupt (打断) someone to let them know that we understand, we move attention to ourselves. When we listen, they know we care.
It’s not that easy to learn to listen. It certainly went against everything that I was taught. I thought people listened only because they were too shy to speak or did not know the answer. A loving silence often has more importance to help and to connect than the kindest words.
【小题1】What is the most important when others are talking according to the passage?A.Sharing. | B.Listening. | C.Understanding. | D.Speaking. |
A.she liked listening | B.she was too shy to talk |
C.she didn’t know the answer | D.she wanted a better listener |
A.move attention to ourselves | B.care much about them |
C.want to help them | D.don’t want to listen any more |
Long long ago, there was a girl called Nuwa. Her father was Emperor (皇帝) Yan and he loved her very much. They often played together, and she also loved her father very much. One day, she had a wonderful time when she swam in the sea. She was too tired to swim and she was drowned (淹死). Because she wanted to see her father when she changed into (变成) a bird, she put some stones into the sea day after day and changed the sea into the land. She made a wish, and she would like to play with her father again.
This story was a little sad. It tells something important. When we do anything, we have to work hard. Learning English is difficult but if you study hard, you can learn it well.
【小题1】Did Emperor Yan love her daughter very much?A.Yes, he did. | B.No, he didn’t. | C.We don’t know. | D.Yes, he didn’t. |
A.She had a wonderful time. | B.She swam in the sea. |
C.She put some stones into the sea. | D.She played with her father. |
A.Because she was happy. | B.Because she was sad. |
C.Because she was tired. | D.Because she was a little girl. |
A.We should change into a bird. | B.The girl loved her father very much. |
C.Don’t swim in the sea. | D.Learning English is easy. |
To know the value of one week, ask editors (编辑) of weekly newspaper. To know the value of one hour, ask the lovers who are waiting to meet. To know the value of one minute ask the person who missed the train. To know the value of one second, ask the one being saved in an accident. Time waits for no one. Treasure every second you have. Act now, day and night. Make progress more or less. Each day is a new life | Enjoy every second in your life. Once you get older, the days go by so fast. Seize time, don’t let it pass you by. Seize time, live as there is no second try. Nothing should stand on your way. Slow down time, get on your way. Time goes by, in a rush of days. Seize time, here and now. |
A.The one who missed the train. | B.The one who worked for newspaper. |
C.The one who was saved in an accident. | D.The one who waited for his or her lover. |
A.By asking editors of weekly newspaper. |
B.By asking the lovers who are waiting to meet. |
C.By asking someone standing on your way. |
D.By asking people who are making progress in their life. |
A.Break | B.Waste | C.Improve | D.Catch |
A.two pieces of news | B.two letters | C.two diaries | D.two poems |
A.To show us the use of time. | B.To tell us the importance of time. |
C.To explain the meaning of time. | D.To find out how to do time management. |
When I was in primary school, I got into a big argument (争吵) with a boy in my class. I have forgotten what the argument was about.
I was sure that I was right and he was wrong. But he kept saying that I was wrong and he was right. Our teacher decided to teach us a very important lesson.
She brought us up to the front of the class and placed him on one side of her desk and me on the other. In the middle of her desk was a large, round ball. I could see that it was black. She asked the boy what color the ball was. “White,” he answered.
I couldn’t believe he said the ball was white, when it was clearly black! Another argument started between the boy and me. This time was about the color of the ball.
The teacher told me to go stand where the boy was standing and told him to come stand where I had been. We changed places, and then she asked me what the color of the ball was. I had to answer, “White.” It was a ball with two differently colored sides.
From his viewpoint (视角) it was white, but from my side it was black.
Sometimes we need to look at things from the other people’s view in order to truly understand them.
【小题1】What happened to the writer first?A.A boy tried to teach her a lesson. |
B.She fought with a girl in her class. |
C.She got into an argument with a boy. |
D.She didn’t like the boys in her class. |
A.Because the boy changed his answer quickly. |
B.Because the teacher told her the right answer. |
C.Because she didn’t want to agree with the boy. |
D.Because the ball looked different from the other side. |
A.People often change ideas. |
B.Think on other people’s side. |
C.Doing is better than saying. |
D.Seeing is not always believing. |
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