Those who have a go-getter mentality (心态) are seen as the high achievers of this world. Let’s learn ways on how to achieve a go-getter attitude.

【小题1】

Bite-sized goals are important. They allow you to experience achievement and therefore allow you to reward yourself, finally contributing to the improvement of your motivation and driving you to achieve more.

Have a clear idea and be intentional (有心的)

【小题2】, having detailed goals in mind, writing them down, and describing them are some of the first steps to be successful. Being intentional is to be willing to try new things and look for solutions. There is no point in doing something if you’re not intentional about what you do. 【小题3】, even a small stone in your path will stop you.

Look at your mistakes as opportunities

It’s also important to look at your mistakes as chances to improve yourself. 【小题4】. If, for example, you work on a project that receives unpleasant comments, use those comments to improve your project and present it again.

Find the courage to push yourself towards goals

Allow yourself to be around by active people who believe in and support you, including those who have pushed through challenges and achieved their goals. Take encouragement from them. Also, you can look back and remind yourself of what you’ve already achieved, and don’t undervalue any of them. 【小题5】.

Does your family have rules? 【小题1】 Let me help you.

【小题2】

Having a family meeting is important. You can tell your children why you want to make some rules. You need to sit down and have a discussion (讨论) with them. Ask what they think is a good family rule.

For Every “Don’t”, Give a “Do”

It doesn’t work to tell children not to do something. You have to teach them the right way to do it. For example, “Don’t watch TV before finishing your homework.” You can say it in another (另一种) way. “【小题3】”

Keep the Family Rules Easy

Children don’t know what “Pay attention to your language” means. But they do know what “Use friendly words” means. 【小题4】 You need to keep the family rules short and easy to understand.

Write Down the Family Rules

【小题5】 It can remind (提醒) everyone that they should follow the rules. It really works well to see the family rules written on a board in your house.

New ways to deal with loneliness

Friends are important in our life, because no one wants to be lonely. However, some people have difficulty in making friends and they often feel lonely. 【小题1】 According to a new study from Chicago University, the reason is that this kind of people have brains (脑) different from common people. And they often feel unsafe when facing strangers.

【小题2】 No, don’t worry. Scientists of this study have thought up ways to help these people deal with their loneliness. 【小题3】

The first step is to accept social invitations even if you don’t want to go. “It’s not enough for people just to get in touch with others online. That’s because most people don’t show their true selves there,” said Dr. Cacioppo, one of this study’s scientists. 【小题4】 As “actions speak louder than words”, people need to be active to communicate with others. Then, they also need to meet people with the same interests. At last, they should try to expect the best from each activity. 【小题5】 Who knows what good things are waiting for us?