How to Get Along with Your Roommate

Having a roommate in the school dormitory (寝室) certainly has its challenges. It can also be a great part of your school experience. 【小题1】.

Be clear about your expectations from the beginning

Let your roommate know your little strange habits and your preferences as soon as you can. 【小题2】. Communicating what you need is one of the best ways to solve problems before they become problems.

Address (设法解决) problems when they’re little

Is your roommate always forgetting his shampoo (洗发水), and taking yours? Addressing things that upset you while they’re still little can help your roommate be aware of something he may not otherwise know. 【小题3】 after they’ve become big.

Stay open to change

You should expect to learn and grow and change during your time at school. And the same should happen to your roommate, if all goes well. As the terms progresses, realize things will change for both of you. Be comfortable addressing things that unexpectedly come up, setting new rules, and being flexible (灵活的) to your changing environment.

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Don’t go into your roommate relationship thinking that you are going to be best friends for the time you’re at school. It may happen, but expecting it sets both of you up for trouble. You should be friendly with your roommate but also make sure you have your own social circles.

Follow the golden rule

【小题5】. No matter what your relationship is at the end of the year, you can take comfort knowing you acted like an adult and treated your roommate with respect.