I try not to do things that can cause me pain, especially things that needs heavy lifting(举). Moving is one thing.
We were preparing to move recently, to a new home in a different place.
Although moving needs heavy lifting, I have to move, physically and emotionally, to a new home, a new job, a new relationship or a whole new stage of life.
It’s called change, and it unfolds(展开) in two stages.
The first stage of change is letting go. It’s hard, especially letting go of something or someone you love. But one day you realize that you can’t keep holding on to whatever is holding you back. So you give thanks for the gift that it has been. Then you open your arms and your heart and simply set it free.
I did that for months, every time I groaned (呻吟) with pain going up or down the stairs.
I like my knees and I’d like them to keep serving me for as long as I need them. So I decided to say goodbye to those stairs(楼梯), and to the house I loved.
It’s very tiring. But you pack up (打包) all your memories and take them to a new place, a new chapter of your life.
The second stage of change is finding joy. For a few days after we moved, I kept searching for things I couldn’t find. Getting ready one morning for a date, I needed to wash my hair, but couldn’t find the hair dryer.
I knew all the things like that were probably in one of many boxes in our garage. But which box? We searched and searched. It was difficult, but we could finally find the thing we needed in the right box. Every time we did it as if we were opening Christmas gifts.
Besides, our new place is half as big as the old one, with a thousand times the view. I like to look at mountains in the new house. They remind me of the place where I grew up, and make me feel at home.
Meanwhile, we are surely finding joy:
The joy of living in the present;
The joy of welcoming family and friends to our new home;
The joy of delighting in simple things like stars.
Thanks to the joy we find, we know that moving was the right decision. At least it seems so at the moment.
I tried to avoid things that cause me pain, like moving. But recently, I had to move. It’s called change, and it unfolds in two stages. |
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