For the past 50 years, spanking has been used to punish children less and less. But what about yelling (喊叫)? Almost everyone still yells at children from time to time, even those parents who know it’s useless. Shouting is probably the most unwise behavior of parenting today.
In people who often yell, their children often feel stressed. A published in the Journal of Child Development showed that yelling at children has results similar to body punishment. Yelling will only make your child feel that you are out of control. It makes you look weak.
But most parents, myself included, find it really hard to spend the day without yelling. The latest research on shouting asks parents two questions: What should I do? How can I give up this habit?
Don’t yell at him every night just because the child throws his shoes around, but ask him in the morning if he can leave the shoes in place when he goes home. Make sure you go home and put your shoes away. If your child puts his shoes in place, even if they can put them near where they should be put, tell him that this is good, then hug him.
ABC Praise is a very effective way. You must be happy, so you must put a silly smile on your face and even raise your hand to wave. Next you have to say what you praise with a very happy and pleasant voice. The third step is to touch the child and give him some words of praise. It makes children notice the praise that comes with correct behavior. That’s the point.
If children behave better, then we won’t yell. If we don’t yell, children will behave better. Let your child do what you want and don’t do what you don’t want through the day. Praise is effective. And punishment is not.
【小题1】What may happen if parents often shout at their children?A.They will be more stressed. | B.They will be better at study. |
C.They will behave better. | D.They will get more praise. |
A.Forbid children having dinner when they come home with a B on the paper. |
B.Tell children to turn off the light while leaving a room in a gentle voice. |
C.Punish children seriously only once if they forget to tidy up their toys. |
D.Always shout at children when they don’t clean the mud from shoes. |
A.Yelling Lead to Higher Depression. |
B.Stop Yelling and Try ABC Praise more. |
C.Good Behavior Comes with praise. |
D.The More Yelling, the more Progress. |
We see many things like colors, lights, buildings with our eyes. But can you protect (保护) your eyes well?
Let eyes have a good rest. Many people need to look at a computer when they work or study. That puts a lot of pressure on their eyes. So every 20 minutes, you should let your eyes have a good rest for around 20 seconds.
Wear a sun hat or sunglasses.
Have eye-friendly food. You can also protect your eyes by eating some eye-friendly food.
Have a good sleep. Make sure you have a good sleep at night. You may think you are doing nothing when you’re sleeping.
A.Green vegetables and fish are good to keep our eyes healthy. |
B.There are some bad rays (光线) from the sun. |
C.Here are some ways about how to look after your eyes. |
D.But it’s the time for your body to rebuild and repair (重建和修复). |
E.During the rest, you should look out of the window. |
Everyone deals with stress. It is a part of human nature, and nobody can avoid it.
Find something interesting in the material you are learning.
A lack (缺少) of interest makes studying more difficult.
Have you ever burned the midnight oil to finish your homework on the last day of a holiday? This probably makes you feel bad. Try to put what you need to get done on paper instead of keeping it in your head can be helpful. It will stop you worrying about the lack of time you have.
Make time for yourself.
Try not to spend all of your time doing nothing but studying. Taking a walk with your dogs or making some cookies will not decline (降低) your grades. Dancing to your favorite artists’ new music is also a good way.
Ask for help.
Sometimes, you can’t solve a problem alone.
Remind yourself that life moves on.
If you find yourself in a state of panic(悲观的), take a deep breath and tell yourself that better days are sure to come. Nothing is impossible for a willing heart.
阅读短文,把A~E五个句子填入文中空缺处,使短文内容完整。
A.Make a study plan. |
B.Helplessness always makes things worse. |
C.Take these short breaks to relax yourself. |
D.But we can still take some steps to make us feel better when face it. |
E.When you are bored at doing something, it will probably take longer to do. |
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