Have you ever wondered what goes through your mind when you choose where to sit in a new classroom? Or in a waiting room full of strangers? Or on a bus? Researchers have found out some interesting facts.
Perhaps unsurprisingly, we prefer to sit closer to people like ourselves. Girls sit by girls and boys sit by boys. Adults sit together and young people choose another young person to sit near. But it goes further than this. We even choose to sit near someone who looks like us. People with glasses are more likely to sit near other people with glasses. People with long hair sit closer to other people with long hair.
We seem to believe that people with similar habits or hobbies will share similar attitude and we are more likely to be accepted by people like ourselves or even, we think we may be safer with people who look like us. Sometimes that’s true but it’s a pity if we always stick to the same people, the same group. The danger in always staying in our comfort zone (舒适区) is that we just recycle the same opinions, the same tastes and the same ideas. We lose the chance to learn something new, find out about interesting things, hear funny stories and discover difference.
When we always stick to the same people, how can we ever break down the barriers which prevent us from getting to know people with different ideas? And how can we avoid the ignorance (无知), which too often leads to prejudice (偏见) and even fear? If instead you want to live in a society that opens to changes and new things and different opinions, be the cat among the pigeons.
Move out of your comfort zone. Go and sit next to someone different. And don’t just sit there in silence. Say hello. Ask a question. Start a conversation. That’s how we make friends. That’s how we learn about people. That’s how we open our minds to new ideas. That’s how we live an exciting life.
【小题1】From the passage, we know that people prefer sitting by someone who ________.A.is like themselves | B.has a sense of humor | C.is open-minded | D.lives an exciting life |
A.remain comfortable and special | B.be accepted easily and feel safe |
C.find out more interesting things | D.discover differences among themselves |
A.Because we feel safer and share similar tastes and ideas. |
B.Because we can enjoy interesting and different ideas. |
C.Because we can say hello and ask them questions. |
D.Because we want to live in a society full of humour. |
A.Just to be ourselves | B.Learn more about the foreign countries |
C.Live an exciting life | D.Jump out of the comfort zone |
My dog and I take walk down the street,
And we say "hello" to people we meet.
There's Mike the baker, outside of his shop.
As we get closer he tells us to stop.
He gives me a piece of freshly baked cake,
And out of his pocket a biscuit for Jake.
There's Mrs. McGinn, a teacher from school.
She has two children, a dog and a pool.
Say "hi" to Rory, who works on his truck.
It won't get started so we wish him luck.
Along comes Bridget who just learned to drive.
She gives Jake a pat and me a high﹣five.
We're back from our walk, the mail truck now parks.
I know that it's there since Jake always barks.
It's Bill the mailman who never comes late.
Arriving at noon, he opens the gate.
"Here's your mail now for house number three."
"Does Jake save that bark for when he sees me?"
【小题1】Which word probably describes Mike best ?A.Helpful. | B.Young. | C.Cheerful. | D.Kind. |
A.He is usually running late. |
B.He always gives Jake a biscuit. |
C.He comes at about 12 every day. |
D.He sometimes forgets the house number. |
A.The first name of the mailman. |
B.The first name of Jake's owner. |
C.Where Jake and his owner are walking. |
D.The house number where Jake and his owner live. |
It is often said that elderly people don’t understand youngsters, while many believe that children are too young to fully appreciate the wisdom(智慧) of their elders. But in truth, both groups have a lot to learn from each other.
Sister Geraldine Tan runs the St. Joseph’s Home for the Aged and Hospice in Singapore. It’s mainly a facility (机构) for serving the elderly. But not all of its visitors are the elderly.
The home also includes a childcare center for about 50 kids between the ages of 2 months and 6 years old. At the center of the home’s courtyard, there’s a playground where the elderly can play with the kids. By doing so, they can learn more about each other and gain respect and understanding each other.
I think this is quite an interesting idea. For one thing, we live in a world where aging societies are becoming more common. China itself is facing this problem as its population ages. It will be important for young people to be able to understand and care for the elderly in the coming decades (数十年).
Sadly, my own grandparents weren’t around when I was little, as they had already passed away. I never learned what the world was like through their eyes, or what kinds of challenges they might’ve faced when they were my age. Their lives will always be a mystery to me.
But I suppose I can still learn from other people of older generations. I might find some of their ideas old-fashioned, and they might believe that my generation’s way of thinking is strange or incorrect. But we can still learn from each other anyway.
【小题1】What is special about the Singaporean facility?A.It is actually a childcare center. |
B.Not every visitor is allowed to go there. |
C.It accepts both elderly people and kids. |
D.The elderly help take care of kids there. |
A.Kids are showing less respect for the elderly. |
B.The elderly can’t understand children. |
C.There are more and more elderly people. |
D.Young people are unable to care for the elderly. |
A.People believe that children are so young that they appreciate the wisdom of their elders |
B.Sister Geraldine Tan lost her parents when she was still very young |
C.The writer’s grandparents had already been dead when he was little |
D.The writer think older generations’ ideas are old-fashioned |
A.Elderly people don’t understand youngsters. |
B.Youngsters can’t appreciate elderly people’s wisdom. |
C.The elderly and the young share little experience. |
D.Different generations can learn from each other. |
A.The Elderly and the Youngsters |
B.The Singaporean Facility |
C.The Population Ages |
D.My Grandpaents |
Everyone likes polite people and being polite is very important. As the old saying goes, “Politeness costs nothing and gains everything.” To know how to be a polite person, one must know the answers to the following two questions.
What is politeness?
How to be polite? It is really easy. If you want to know the answer, think about the people you love dearly. How do they talk? What do they say that makes you feel good?
● Always say words like “thank you” and “please”. It is a good example of politeness and a way to speak politely to others.
● Appreciation (欣赏) is an important part of politeness. Whenever someone does something nice for you, no matter how small, always be ready with a smile.
Do not do or say anything that might offend (冒犯) someone. Make sure that people feel comfortable around you. And choose your words carefully. What seems funny to you might hurt a lot of people.
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Let’s be better human beings and always ask ourselves if we are being polite to others.
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A.Don’t try to force your own opinions on others. |
B.Politeness is a behavior that shows understanding of and care for other people’s feelings. |
C.Just say those words to make your life easier. |
D.It will make both the person and you feel good. |
E.Here is some advice you can use to be polite. |
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