Good advice can help people make better decisions(决定). When someone asks you for advice, you should take it seriously and try your best to give good advice. Sometimes you should remember what your mother taught you: if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all, because bad advice may have terrible results. There are some ways for you to give advice.
☆Listen to the person asking you for advice. Every situation(情况) is special, so never think you know all about a problem. Listen to the person who wants advice, and learn as much as possible about the situation.
☆Put yourself in others' shoes. Think about what you will do if you are in the same situation. Don't just depend on(依赖) your experiences to give advice.
☆Think about the results of taking and not taking your advice. When possible, think twice about all the possible results. This is more important for really difficult problems.
☆Understand that the person may not take your advice. Someone asks for your advice, but he or she may not take it. When you give advice, the idea is to give someone the tools( 方法) to make their own decision, not make the decision for them. The person knows more about the situation than you do, so your advice may not be the best. Don't be surprised when a person doesn't take your advice. Live with it, and let the person live with his or her decision.
☆Don't be afraid to let the person know that you don't have anything to say if you are not able to give any advice. Take some time to think about it. You may share your thoughts later.
【小题1】When a person asks you for advice, you should ________.A.try to give good advice | B.say nothing at all |
C.ask your mom for advice | D.tell the bad results |
A.Because we should learn from other people. |
B.Because the person has something nice to tell us. |
C.Because we need to know about the special situation. |
D.Because the person will feel much more comfortable. |
A.削足适履 | B.设身处地 | C.助人为乐 | D.以身作则 |
A.you will have to try harder | B.you shouldn't be surprised |
C.you can make better decisions | D.you can shout at them angrily |
A.How to give advice. | B.How to take others’ advice. |
C.How to ask for advice. | D.How to solve difficult problems. |
People with social anxiety (焦虑) may easily communicate with family members and close friends. But meeting new friends, talking in public can make them very shy and nervous.
Dealing with social anxiety takes patience and courage to face fears and try new things.
Firstly, work on your self-worth.
Secondly, start smiling and use a welcoming body language. Remember to give others a hug when you meet them. Stop looking at your phone all the time, but keep looking in his eyes when he is talking something to you.
Lastly, just be yourself. Take every chance to hang out with new people and those you like.
A.But how to be social and improve your social skills? |
B.Don’t hide yourself in your own world. |
C.Stop thinking of things that make you down. |
D.To a certain extent, it’s natural to feel nervous or shy in front of others at times. |
E.It takes a promise to go forward rather than go away when feeling shy. |
In the digital (数字的) world, it is far more convenient to send a text or email than send a letter. Is the writing style with a traditional pen and paper worth passing on? Is it out of date?Well, some people believe that writing is still useful, so maybe it’s not time to throw away your ballpoint or fountain pen yet.
Nowadays, when people require things in writing, a typed, electronic document(文件) will be mostly accepted. It could be written, saved and sent by email. But making a handwritten document is special. It needs planning and thought, as well as practicing your handwriting. It helps you remember the spelling of words.
Some experts believe it is helpful to our brains to write with pen and paper. This is especially true for students. It is because typing notes into a computer doesn’t have enough feedback(反馈) to the brain. However, writing with pen and paper does.
According to BBC Work life website, when taking notes by hand, our brains take part in summarizing, organizing and words building. In other words, it helps train our brains. And handwriting may do good to fine skills in our hands and fingers.
Besides, writing down notes, shopping lists, or messages on the back of an envelope can still be useful in our daily lives. A handwritten letter to a friend or loved one may be more meaningful.
Katherine Moller, a writer, told the BBC, “In a world where it is so easy to go online to send an email or a fast text, it is so personal and joyful to read a letter from others, because they choose to spend some time with you.”
A.Writing a paper document by hand. |
B.Sending an email through computers. |
C.Saving and sending an electronic document. |
D.Typing an electronic document on a computer. |
A.Because it may give enough feedback to the brain. |
B.Because writing with pen and paper is fashionable. |
C.Because typing notes into the computer saves time. |
D.Because it gives us enough time to do brain exercise. |
A.The brain only works when we are taking notes. |
B.Handwriting can train both our brains and hands. |
C.Experts have different opinions about handwriting. |
D.Handwriting plays an important role in summarizing. |
A.Handwriting is more popular in the digital world. |
B.It’s easy and meaningful to send friends a fast text. |
C.She prefers to read a letter rather than read an email. |
D.A typed letter is more special than a handwritten one. |
A.It is the time to welcome the digital world. |
B.We cannot get away from the digital world. |
C.Electronic documents make our lives better. |
D.Writing on paper will still be quite important. |
How do you feel when your teacher asks you to work on a group project with other students? Do you like to work together with others or work alone?
The program for International Student Assessment (PISA), which aims to evaluate education system worldwide by testing the skills and knowledge of 15-year-old students, carried out a survey of students' ability to work together in groups. They found that students who do well on tests by themselves are also likely to be better at working with other people.
This finding was true for many countries. Students in Japan, South Korea, Finland and Canada, where test scores are high, also did well in working together to solve problems. But this was not the case for every country. Chinese students, who have high scores as well, displayed just average collaborative(合作的) skills.
"One reason might be that Chinese parents and teachers focus too much on grades." said Zhao Zhongxin, former vice president of the Chinese Family Education Association. "Students have a lot of exam pressure and they see schools as places for competition."
"However, collaborative skills are very important for preparing students for today's society." he added. "Luckily, more Chinese parents and teachers are realizing the importance of this and are thinking of ways to help students improve it."
Another interesting finding from the PISA survey was that girls can be better than boys at working together. They said girls show more positive attitudes(态度) towards relationships, which means they are more willing to listen to others' opinions.
PISA also found that the classroom environment can influence how well students collaborate. In classes where there are a lot of activities that require communication such as class debates, students might have better attitudes towards collaborating.
【小题1】From Paragraph 2, we can know PISA is ________A.a survey system | B.a skill system | C.a program group | D.a finding result |
A.prepare society | B.work with others | C.get good grades | D.win the competition |
A.today's society | B.parents' realization | C.the importance | D.collaborative skill |
A.give students high scores on tests. | B.help students reduce exam pressure. |
C.provide more communicative activities | D.make girls work with girls instead of boys |
A.The better grades, the better at teamwork. | B.Gender(性别) has no influence on collaboration. |
C.Please focus as much on collaboration as on grades. | D.It's important for students to develop collaboration. |
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