We can make mistakes at any age. Some mistakes we make are about money, but most mistakes are about people. “Did Jerry really care when I broke up with Helen?” “When I got that great job, did Jim really feel good about it, as a friend? Or did he envy my luck?” “And Paul — why didn't I pick up that he was friendly just because I had a car?” When we look back, doubts like these can make us feel bad. But when we look back, it's too late. Why do we go wrong about our friends — or our enemies? Sometimes what people say hides their real meaning. And if we don't really listen, we miss the feeling behind the words. Suppose someone tells you, “You're a lucky dog.” Is he really on your side? If he says, “You're a lucky guy” or “You're a lucky gal,” that's being friendly. But “lucky dog”? There's a bit of envy in those words. Maybe he doesn't see it himself. But bringing in the “dog” bit puts you down a little. What he may be saying is that he doesn't think you deserve your luck.
How can you tell the real meaning behind someone's words? One way is to take a good look at the person talking. Do his words fit the way he looks? Does what he says square with the tone of voice? His posture? The look in his eyes? Stop and think. The minute you spend thinking about the real meaning of what people say to you may save another mistake.
【小题1】The questions in the first paragraph tell us that the speaker ________.A.feels happy, thinking of how nice his friends were to him |
B.feels he may not have “read” his friends' true feelings correctly |
C.thinks it was a mistake to have broken up with his girl friend Helen |
D.is sorry that his friends let him down |
A.is just being friendly |
B.expresses the same meaning as “You're a lucky guy.” or “You ' re a lucky gal.” |
C.sometimes the words used by the speaker give a tip to the feeling behind the words |
D.the word “dog” shouldn’t be used to describe a person |
A.avoid mistakes about money and friends | B.bring the “dog” bit into our conversation |
C.be friendly to other people | D.avoid mistakes in understanding what people tell you |
A.to notice his tone, his posture, and the look in his eye |
B.to listen to how he pronounces his words |
C.to check his words against his manner, his tone of voice, and his posture |
D.not to believe what he says |
A.be able to get the real meaning of people’s words |
B.avoid any mistakes while talking with people who envy you |
C.not lose real friends who say things that do not please you |
D.be able to observe people as they are talking to you |
Cat people adore cats because they are beautiful and independent. Cats don’t need much care. They go out for a walk by themselves, and don’t need baths. Cat lovers say that dogs are dirty and very dependent on people.
Dog people love dogs, because dogs love people. Dog owners believe that dogs make people happy, and people make dogs happy. Dog lovers say cats are too proud. But what influence do cats and dogs have on people? Personally, I believe cat people are arty and independent. They say that cat people pay more attention to personal expressions, and they respect individual differences. Typical dog people love family life: they are warm and friendly people, and they are very loyal to their friends.
In my house I have two cats and a dog. I think I am a cat and dog person. What about you? Do you like dogs or cats?
【小题1】According to the passage, we can know the writer is the person _____.
A.who likes neither dogs nor cats |
B.who likes both dogs and cats |
C.who only likes dogs |
D.who only likes cats |
A.It’s about how to take care of pets. |
B.It’s about what dog owners think of dogs. |
C.It’s about why people don’t like cats. |
D.It’s about what cat owners think of cats. |
A.arty | B.independent |
C.lazy | D.loyal |
A.Cat People and Dog People |
B.Advantages of Keeping Dogs and Cats |
C.Stay Away from Dogs and Cats |
D.Get to Know People’s Personality |
It is said that there are about 40,000 different kinds of jobs in the world. So choosing the right one itself is a difficult job.
Here are a few steps to help you think about jobs you might enjoy doing after school or university.
First, it is important to know what kind of person you are and what you are interested in.
Then ask yourself this question: What skills do I have?
At last, trust your own ideas and your own thinking!
根据短文内容,从所给的选项中选出能填入空白处的最佳选项。
A.It is your own life, so find something that you enjoy doing. |
B.After knowing your skills, the next step is research. |
C.“Finding a job” is not the same as “choosing a job”. |
D.There is a difference between an interest and a skill. |
E.You can also ask your friends about the work they do. |
What do we mean by responsibility? To put it simply, it is a duty to consider the consequences(结果,后果)of our actions. In other words, we have a duty to control our behavior.
When we are children, we have few responsibilities. Our parents look after us and we generally don't have to worry about food or shelter(居所). As we grow up, we gradually need to be responsible for more and more things. We learn how to make our own decisions and realize that we have moral duties. We have to be responsible for our lives.
We also have responsibilities that go beyond ourselves. Parents have the responsibility to look after their children. Beyond the family, people have a responsibility towards the community as a whole. It is responsible for us as a society to make this world a safe and pleasant place for everyone.
When we fail in our responsibilities, the consequences are most serious. Teenagers who stop their studies might make their own lives bad. Parents who are not caring for their own children properly, will put them in danger. By not following the traffic rules, careless drivers kill more than a million people around the world every year. Certain professions in our society, such as police officers, present to protect the public, and often risk their own lives in order to do their duty. However, their efforts depend on the support of ordinary people. If we pay no attention to our own responsibilities, society will become dangerous.
Whether we are shouldering heavy responsibilities, like doctors or lots, or simply taking responsibility for our own learning as students, we will always be judged on how well we perform our duties. For this reason, the hardest part of acting responsibly is admitting ( 承认 ) that we failed or that we made a mistake. Let's say you visit your friend's house and accidentally make an expensive teapot broken while your friend is in another room. The honest thing to do is of course to admit and apologize. Because this requires courage, some people take another way: they pretend that nothing happened. Perhaps a broken teapot might not be such a big deal, but in any given situation, we can choose to act responsibly.
Responsibilities are an important part of life since our actions have consequences. If everyone considered how their actions would affect( 影 响 )themselves and other people, the world would be a better place.
【小题1】Which of the following is NOT TRUE according to the passage?A.We should choose to act responsibly in any given situation. |
B.Students have the same heavy responsibilities as the doctors. |
C.We have to be responsible for ourselves and beyond ourselves. |
D.Police officers often risk their own lives in order to do their duty. |
A.children have no responsibilities |
B.adults often risk their own lives in order to do their duty |
C.students should only be responsible for their own learning |
D.our responsible actions would make the world a better place |
A.to control our behavior | B.to make our own decisions |
C.to admit our failure or mistakes | D.to affect ourselves and other people |
A.Importance of Responsibility | B.Consequence of Responsibility |
C.Difficult Part of Responsibility | D.Development of Responsibility |
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