You know that overnight success usually takes at least 10 years? One man said, “My overnight success was the longest night of my life, I spent many days and nights just getting there.”
Many people who have failed do not know how close they are to success when they give up.
A.They don’t actually fail; they just give up too easily. |
B.They made all the efforts without any results. |
C.Remember, “Rome was not built in a day.” |
D.Education can’t, for the world is full of educated losers. |
E.And they keep doing it till they get the success they want. |
F.Never forget, it is persistence that matters. |
G.Give it all you’ve got and you can never fail. |
Each human being is born as something new, something that never existed before. Each is born with the capacity to win at life. Each person has a unique way of seeing, hearing, touching, tasting and thinking.
Winners do not dedicate their lives to a concept of what they imagine they should be; rather, they are themselves and as such do not use their energy putting on a performance, maintaining pretence, and handling others, they are aware that there is a difference between being loving and acting loving, between being stupid and acting stupid, between being knowledgeable and acting knowledgeable.
Winners do not play “helpless”, nor do they play the blaming game.
A.Besides they want to hold everything entirely in their power. |
B.Winners do not need to hide behind a mask. |
C.Instead, they assume responsibility for their own lives. |
D.Winners are not afraid to do their own thinking and to use their own knowledge. |
E.Although winners can freely enjoy themselves, they can also postpone enjoyment. |
F.Each has his or her own unique potentials—capabilities and limitations. |
G.A winner’s timing is right. |
Holiday was over. The school bus was due to pick up my daughters in four minutes, and they were doing their last minute gathering of shoes, water bottles, lunches, and backpacks.
“Don’t forget it’s Tuesday,” I called to my eight-year-old daughter as she headed for the boots lying next to the door. “Tennis shoes for P.E.,” I added.
My child suddenly stopped and turned to face me, grasping her right arm with her left. “Mama, my arm hurts today. Could you write me a note that says my arm is sore?”
“You want me to write a note now? You should have thought of it sooner.”
“Sore arm? Let me guess — too much Nintendo Wii (一种电子游戏)?”
“You will be fine. Come on, we need to go. The bus is coming.”
I thought of those responses.
But I didn’t say them.
From past experiences, I could see how this situation would play out if I chose sarcasm (讽刺), unfriendliness, and annoyance over understanding, responsiveness, and respect.
Choosing unfriendliness in a moment of conflict had once resulted in breaking into pieces my husband’s coffee pot in the kitchen sink.
And then came regret.
Anger was the reason I lost all control one day when I was unable to locate my car in a sea of vehicles.
And then came regret.
Despite the years that have passed since those incidents, I can still see my children’s faces, staring at me in horror wondering what had become of me in those moments.
I disliked myself in those moments. I wanted to run away and hide. But most of all, I didn’t want to be that changeable person anymore.
Facing one of those situations, I knew my response could either make or break the situation. So I took a 3-second pause before opening my mouth.
I noticed there were real tears welling in my daughter’s eyes…real tears she didn’t want to fall… real tears she was actually pushing back with her fingers.
That 3-second pause was just long enough for me to realize this sadness, this pain, this worry of my child’s was real. And a note to the P.E. teacher was very important to her.
I wrote the quick note, and handed it to my child. I never knew I had the power to hand someone a little bit of peace, comfort…
“Thank you, Mama,” she said quietly, color coming back to her face.
I thought of my child’s sore arm throughout the day. And although I don’t always make the right choice with my words, I knew I had that time.
“When I got to P. E., I saw they were doing something I could do, even with a sore arm. So I kept the note in my pocket and played,” my daughter told me later.
Thank goodness, things are different now. The goal of each tough situation is to speak in a way I can be heard … to listen in a way that the other person can be heard … and to walk away feeling at peace with the way the situation was handled.
I’ve started a new list — a list of thoughtful responses that I’ve offered. This list inspired me to write a hopeful reminder — 3-second pauses have the power to save a morning, spare some pain, and prevent regret from being a lifelong companion. May it bring someone else hope too!
【小题1】Why did the author’s daughter want a note?A.She wanted to ask for a one-day sick leave. |
B.She was unable to exercise for a sore arm. |
C.She didn’t feel like attending a P.E. lesson. |
D.She wanted to be informed of the schedule. |
A.she was wondering how the arm was hurt |
B.she doubted if her daughter was telling a lie |
C.she was angry for her daughter’s skipping P.E. |
D.she was seeking a better solution to the situation |
A.Disappointed and frightened. | B.Confused and scared. |
C.Painful and regretful. | D.Unfriendly and annoyed. |
A.She wanted to make up for her past overreactions. |
B.She didn’t want to make her daughter disappointed. |
C.She thought it was proper to do so after consideration. |
D.She didn’t want to start a conflict with her daughter. |
A.A powerful motivator — regret. | B.Regret never goes away easily. |
C.A single error can bring a lifelong regret. | D.Regret, it’s nice to see you go. |
First of all, one should consider how important image is in the selling of products and services. Advertising agencies have raised the art of creating an image to a state of near perfection. Public concept of that product or service is certainly managed by the images created by the advertising agencies. But if the product or service does not live up to the image that was created, the customer will be very dissatisfied and possibly ask for their money back. For example, the Arthur Andersen accounting firm had spent decades building up an image of trustworthiness. But the recent scandal (丑闻) showed that behind that image, it cheated in business practices. Despite the previous positive image, the firm is being accused of criminal actions and it will probably not survive as a business unit. Although the image had been nearly perfect, the reality behind the image has led to the downfall of the world famous accounting firm.
Similarly, personal advisers can build up a public image for politicians and movie stars. Putting out positive news releases, making sure that only the best photographs are published, and ensuring that the person is seen in all the right places can build up a very positive image in the view of the general commons. But once again, history is filled with examples of both politicians and movie stars that fell from grace like the story of the Hollywood actor giving in to the pressures of fame and fortune. With people, just as with products and services, image is certainly important, but without positive substance behind the image, failure is close.
To summarize, it is clear that an appealing image is extremely important to success, whether that image is related to selling a product or service or to the “selling” of a person. But image is only half of the equation. What lies behind that image is every bit as important as the image itself —— the person or product must deliver on that image or there is little chance for long-term success.
【小题1】The downfall of the Arthur Andersen accounting firm is due to ________.
A.its previous images |
B.its dishonesty in business |
C.its bad management |
D.its poor service |
A.Their images were not well built up |
B.They felt much pressure from the public. |
C.They failed to live up to their images |
D.They paid little attention to fame and fortune. |
A: Argument P: Point C: Conclusion
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