The Things That Keep Us From Succeeding
We have always been told not to fear failure because it is essential to success. So we should embrace failure or at least the possibility of failure.
NO.1: You don’t have a goal. A lot of time we find ourselves struggling through a day-to-day routine that isn’t getting us anywhere because we don’t know where we want to go. Sometimes we had goals when we set ourselves on a particular path,but we’ve changed along the way and those goal s are no longer that important.
NO.2: You don’t have a vision. Setting goals is important but isn’t enough to drive you to the finish line;it’s important,too,to be able to imagine yourself as the achiever of your goals. If goal s are the end result of a journey,your vision is the fuel to get you there.
NO.3: You don’t have a plan. If goals are your destination and a vision is your fuel,your plan is the map to get you there.
NO.4: You’re too certain or not certain enough. Too much certainty creates inflexibility. If you’re sure that your plan is correct,and refuse to accept the possibility of error,you may well find yourself stuck when an unexpected change comes about. However strong your plan and however sure you are of your goals,make room for periodic reassessment.
NO.5:
A.Whatever the case |
B.Whatever the cause |
C.You worry about being copied |
D.You don’t learn from your mistakes |
E.At the same time,too little certainty will fail you |
F.However,fear isn’t the only thing that keeps us from succeeding |
G.Without it,you have no idea what immediate steps to take to achieve your goals |
Stories are a powerful way to communicate. We all learn through stories. I’ve raised a three-step formula anyone can use to create powerful stories that will help you make your point. First, identify your truth. Second, think of the decisive experiences that have led you to this "truth". Third, shape those experiences into a story that you can tell at the drop of a hat. Here’s an example of how I have used this formula.
Years ago, I had an assignment to conduct a team-building session. The client was my friend. I arrived at his office 5: 00 p. m. the day before our session. He asked me if I had an agenda for tomorrow’s meeting. I told him that, first we'll do A, then B, followed by C. We’ll finish up with D. Still he asked if I had an agenda.
At first, I thought he hadn’t been listening to what I just said, so I repeated myself, "First we'll do A, then B, followed by C. We’ll finish up with D. "He said," Yes, I know. That's what you just said. Do you have an agenda?
At that point, it dawned on me that he was looking for a printed agenda. I said, "No, but we really don't need one. I’ve done many meetings like this. It will go fine.” He said, “I’m not comfortable winging it.” So we created an agenda using Powerpoint. The next day, the meeting went off smoothly. We followed the agenda I had in my head and he had on the PowerPoint slide. Everyone agreed it was one of the best meetings of this type they had ever attended.
It became clear to me that if I want to influence not just this client, but anyone, I need to adapt my communication style to theirs. From that day on, I modify my communication style to meet the needs of the other person.
【小题1】What does Paragraph 1 mainly talk about?A.How to form powerful stories | B.Stories come from experiences. |
C.How to communicate with powerful stories. | D.Stories play an important part in communication. |
A.By listing figures. | B.By giving examples. |
C.By making remarks. | D.By presenting research findings. |
A.The author winged it. |
B.The author's friend used Powerpoint. |
C.The author and his friend created an agenda separately. |
D.The author and his friend made an agenda using Powerpoint. |
A.Adopt | B.Follow | C.Change | D.Create |
Anniversary trips were a tradition that was nearly as old as our marriage. Each year, Jim and I took turns planning a secret trip for the other. I finally found a perfect spot: The Shire of Montana. It was a “hobbit house”. And our six-year-old daughter, Aurora, would also love it.
I was about to make a reservation when I saw a note on The Shire’s website: No kids allowed. We couldn’t leave Aurora behind. I asked if an exception might be possible. A reply came. “The rule exists because previous children destroyed large parts of the Elven Village,” wrote Mr. Michaels, the owner. “But if you promise that your daughter is responsible and will not touch anything, she can come.” Aurora was a well-behaved girl. I wrote back and filled in the reservation form.
The day finally arrived. I was excited very much. Still, turning onto Hobbit Lane, I felt anxious. “Children aren’t usually allowed here,” I reminded Aurora. “So you have to be very careful. You can look at everything, but don’t touch it.”
Then we began our journey. Aurora took everything in, keeping her hands pressed to her sides. “Remember, no touching,” I reminded Aurora, feeling like a complainer. Had I made Aurora so scared of touching things that she couldn’t think about anything else? What fun was that?
We spent several days at the Shire. I finally found that Aurora delighted in each discovery but never disturbed a thing. Being aware of boundaries didn’t take away the beauty and wonder; it allowed the Shire to remain beautiful. It was not so different from our family life, I thought. Jim and I moved through life side by side as a couple, but we’d learned to accept each other’s individuality and boundaries as well.
【小题1】What can we know from the second paragraph?A.The visitors to The Shire of Montana all performed properly. |
B.The author was dissatisfied with the reservation rules. |
C.The process of arranging the trip was a bit difficult. |
D.The Shire’s website failed to give useful information. |
A.Her fear of getting lost. | B.Her concern for their safety. |
C.Her worry about her family’s feelings. | D.Her uncertainty about Aurora’s feelings. |
A.It helped Aurora win praise from others. |
B.It kept Aurora away from possible dangers. |
C.It might prevent Aurora from fully enjoying herself. |
D.It could let Aurora realize the value of cultural treasures. |
A.Taking responsibility for our own choices. |
B.Respecting both personal needs and boundaries. |
C.Learning how to find beauty in small things. |
D.Trying to meet every family member’s expectations. |
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