There is a fine line between a parent who is active and open-minded and one that doesn’t know when to let go. As my daughter, Nicole, prepares to leave home for college, I’m discovering how hard it is to stay on the ______ side of this line. One day, it was time to prepare for dinner. When I held ______ the apron strings (围裙带) connecting us, Nicole, eager to ______ independence, tried to loosen my grasp (掌控). What resulted was a (an) ______ mother-daughter, push-me, pull-you kind of tango.
For the past two years, it’s gone like this:
Mother’s question: “Have you thought of taking an advanced class (大学预备课程) so that you can earn college credit (学分)?”
Daughter’s ______: “No, I’m not interested in that.”
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Two months ago, she was ______ into a great university. However, I was still the mother having a ______ time letting go. The night before the introductory meeting of the university, I had read the course catalog (目录) carefully and ______ the courses which I thought looked good. We met on the campus the next afternoon, and Nicole’s face ______ with excitement. “I have had all my timetables of courses ready,” she said. “Already?” I was astonished, ______ she should have discussed it with me. I examined what he chose. Nicole hadn’t taken a (an) ______ one of the courses I had suggested. Every course she had chosen ______ suited her interests. Just then I saw a mature, strong young woman with a ______ mind and the ability to shape her future. She no longer needed her mother ______ every decision she made. I felt proud, though still a bit ______.
I ______ the lessons carefully. Nicole has struggled to learn over the past 18 years the following things: ______, sympathy, and hard work. There have been a few holes along the way. ______, she is well-equipped and eager to ______ the future. The next step, I recognized, was mine to take: giving my daughter and myself the ______ we both needed.
【小题1】A.both | B.right | C.either | D.each |
【小题2】【小题3】A.keep | B.refuse | C.taste | D.bear |
【小题4】A.embarrassing | B.relaxing | C.lively | D.beautiful |
【小题5】A.solution | B.word | C.request | D.answer |
【小题6】A.received | B.invited | C.treated | D.admitted |
【小题7】A.good | B.great | C.hard | D.easy |
【小题8】A.taken | B.underlined | C.offered | D.made |
【小题9】A.lit up | B.lift up | C.turned up | D.made up |
【小题10】A.imagining | B.thinking | C.pretending | D.adding |
【小题11】A.only | B.just | C.even | D.single |
【小题12】A.mostly | B.hardly | C.exactly | D.possibly |
【小题13】A.sharp | B.normal | C.different | D.social |
【小题14】A.to threaten | B.to judge | C.to disagree | D.to lead |
【小题15】A.anxious | B.excited | C.sad | D.unconscious |
【小题16】A.reviewed | B.explored | C.read | D.pictured |
【小题17】A.pride | B.fight | C.failure | D.responsibility |
【小题18】A.Therefore | B.Instead | C.Still | D.Besides |
【小题19】A.determine | B.welcome | C.discover | D.control |
【小题20】A.character | B.strength | C.happiness | D.independence |