Meaningful relationships make life more enjoyable. In order to attract an ideal mate, you'll need to spend some time preparing yourself to make sure you're ready to be in a relationship with a new person.

Define what an ideal relationship means to you. As you set out to create your ideal relationship, make sure you consider what you want from it. 【小题1】If you want attention and affection, look for someone who gives you that.

【小题2】 Often, one of the biggest things that can get in the way of your future happiness is your past.   In order to move forward in your life, you need to say goodbye to anything you may be struggling with from your past.   Creating an ideal relationship requires commitment to the possibilities of the future, not bitterness about the past.

Be positive. No one wants to be around someone who is bad-tempered or pessimistic all the time. 【小题3】If you want to find an ideal relationship, try to picture the future as full of opportunities. Nobody is perfect, but being positive about yourself and your life will be attractive to potential partners.

Work towards positive changes in your life. 【小题4】 Often, these character quirks（怪癖） are what make people lovable and memorable.   Your family and friends should love you in spite of your flaws.【小题5】Of course you shouldn't change yourself for someone else, unless it is a positive change that you want to make for yourself.