How do you get a man to do his share of the housework? If you are like most women, you’ve faced this question the hard way.
A man will enjoy a clean, orderly house, but he usually won’t make the effort to clean or organize it. This doesn’t mean that a woman has to do all the housework:; she may have to manage many of the household duties, and request her partner’s participation(参与). A woman can often say that men and women should take equal responsibility(责任) for housework.
Very few men are raised to be fully responsible for housework, and many men look on housework as women’s work. On the other hand, most men will readily work around the yard, make repairs and complete projects on weekends or evenings, and it’s important that you give your man appreciation for those things, too. Most men will take on a little additional housework around the house if asked politely. They are even more likely to do housework if they can choose what they want to do, and do it without being monitored.
Here’s the key: men want to feel that they are doing housework either because they want to do a task, or because they simply want to please their women. Men are much less likely to take on household tasks they consider uninteresting and unimportant. In other words, men are likely to do a household task just for the good of the house.
【小题1】The passage is mainly about how to _____.A.get men to take on some housework |
B.get men to serve their families |
C.praise men’ housework |
D.make men do all the housework |
A.is willing to do housework |
B.likes to be told to do housework |
C.is taught to be responsible for housework from childhood |
D.likes a clean house but doesn’t make efforts to clean it |
A.order them to do their share |
B.ask them to do some housework politely |
C.blame men’s laziness |
D.monitor men’s work |
A.work without any payment |
B.do unimportant household tasks |
C.do housework without women’s praise |
D.please their wives |
A.Cleaning the table. | B.Doing some sewing. |
C.Painting the fence. | D.Asking his wife to work on the yard. |
Life Skills Start in the Home
I started my kids on household chores young because I refuse to send any of them into the world without being able to provide the most basic care for themselves. We started small such as teaching them how to crack an egg or load the washing machine. We made a game: of it and let it get messy.
If there is unwillingness or lack of enthusiasm,
Jessica Lahey, author of “The Gift of Failure,” advocates that we teach our kids autonomy so they will be more motivated to engage in the business of their lives and learn how to be competent. In order to do this, we give our kids clear expectations and
Yes, we have had some magnificent disasters in this house. Each one was a moment where we could come together as a family, figure out the solution and deal with the consequences.
A.don’t worry about it |
B.With these exposures |
C.Pay attention to that problem |
D.They try to live up to our expectations |
E.then step away after we have taught them |
F.Everyone is responsible for their own laundry |
G.Kids start doing chores around the house from a young age |
How many men do housework? Recently a European commission (委员会) tried to find out people’s ideas and reactions to the women’s movement. As part of their survey, they asked many men and women the question, “Who does the housework?” The men answered very differently from the women!
The housework they asked people about was: preparing meals, washing dishes, cleaning the house and babysitting. 48% of British husbands said they did these things. 37% of Danish (丹麦的) men helped in the house. But only 15% of Italian men said they did the housework; many of them said they never helped at all!
But there was an interesting point of view from the wives. According to British wives, only 38% of their husbands helped in the house. And Italian wives said that their husbands hardly ever helped. The Italian and British men did not tell the truth! The Commission found that Danish men were the most truthful husbands; their answers were the same as their wives’ answers.
Do the men you know help in the house? Do you think the survey gives a true picture in your experience? Write and tell us what you think.
【小题1】The subject of the survey is ________.A.how many boys do the housework |
B.who does the housework at home |
C.how many women do the housework |
D.who are more diligent, wives or husbands |
A.there were more husbands who did the housework than wives |
B.wives did almost all the housework at home |
C.husbands did half of the housework all the time |
D.there were more wives who did the housework than husbands |
A.Danish; British | B.Italian; British |
C.British; Danish | D.Italian; Danish |
I feel it important for families to have regular meals together. One of my best childhood memories was dinner wih my parents and two sisters. As a result, last year I decided that the entire family would have dinner together three days a week. Because my hushand and I both work and our three kids are busy with school activities, we could harlly have a chance to get together as a family. But we thought it possible for everyone to set aside three evenings a week for a sit-down dinner.
First we tried setting three fixed days for our experiment — Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. After trying the plan some weeks, almost everyone was unhappy. Then my son had the idea of having everyone post his or her schedule for the week on the fridge every Sunday. I would choose the three best days.
For a while, the kids continued to resist (抵触) the idea, saying they would rather spend the time with their friends or joining in sports or other activities. But with time going on, they began to see these evenings together positively. We discussed each other’s problems. We made vacation plans. We laughed a lot. Months later, anyone who had to miss a family meal felt regretful.
We all now feel that we’ve been able to build stronger relationships within the family and communicate better. The idea of having regular family meals together, which seemed difficult at first, has brought about many positive changes in our lives.
【小题1】What made the writer decide to have regular family meals together?A.Her good childhood memory. | B.Her kids’ needs for help. |
C.Her husband’s advice. | D.Her son’s idea. |
A.Two. | B.Three. | C.Four. | D.Five. |
A.On Mondays. | B.On Wednesdays |
C.On Fridays. | D.On Sundays. |
A.Lonely. | B.Happy. | C.Sorry. | D.Lucky. |
A.To keep positive, talk more often |
B.To stay healthy, have more sports |
C.The kids that are often busy, feel happy |
D.The family that eats together, stays together |
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