There was no doubt that Jerry was unique because he had several followers who were in his shadow from restaurant to restaurant. Obviously, these colleagues were greatly touched by Jerry’s attitude so as to follow him here and there. Being a natural motivator, Jerry was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation whenever he or she was having a bad day.
Curious about his style, I went up to Jerry and asked him, “ I can’t believe it! You can’t be a positive person all the time. How do you do it? ” Jerry replied, “ Each morning I wake up and say to myself, ‘Jerry, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or in a bad mood.’ I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or to point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life.”
“Yeah, right, it’s not that easy,” I protested. “ Yes, it is,” Jerry said. “ Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It’s your choice how you live life.”
I reflected on what Jerry said. Soon after I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.
Several years later, I heard that Jerry did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant business: he left the back door open one morning and was held up at gunpoint by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination(密码组合). The robbers panicked and shot him. Luckily, Jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local hospital. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments(碎片) of the bullets still in his body.
I bumped into Jerry about six months after the terrifying accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, “
Jerry continued, “The paramedics(护理人员)were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the emergency room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read,‘ He’s a dead man.’ I knew I needed to take action.” “What did you do?” I asked. “Well, there was a big nurse shouting questions at me,” said Jerry. “She asked if I was allergic to anything. ‘Yes’ I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, ‘Bullets(子弹)!’. Over their laughter I told them, ‘I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead.’ ”
Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his experienced doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully.
【小题1】By saying “If I were any better, I would be twins!”(Paragraphs 1&7), Jerry means that_________.
A.he felt depressed in life |
B.he was content with his life |
C.he regretted not having a twin brother |
D.he attempted to live as good a life as his twin brother |
A.He accepted it and tried to copy it. |
B.He was jealous of and even hated it. |
C.He was in favor of and reflected on it. |
D.He failed to understand it and tended to confirm it. |
A.He couldn’t bear the rudeness of a big nurse. |
B.The medical staff were not skilled enough to save him. |
C.He was in danger and had to follow the nurses’ instructions. |
D.He had to encourage the doctors and nurses for the operation. |
A.refused to | B.promised to |
C.agreed to | D.intended to |
A.Humorous and optimistic. |
B.Unique(独特) and unselfish. |
C.Positive and cautious. |
D.Outstanding and ambitious. |
A.Jerry’s survival is a miracle (奇迹). |
B.Unique people may achieve success. |
C.Attitude is everything. |
D.Choices mean success. |
How to Handle an Argument with Your Family Members
We’ve all been there. A relaxed evening with our family members. A lot of laughing. And then, as if someone had sat on the TV remote and changed the channel, the mood shifts. No more warmth. Suddenly there’s shouting, a ping-pong of accusations(指责), deadly stares, and hostility(敌意) streaming from eyes like red laser pointers. Having a conflict with your family members is frustrating, and you may feel sad and depressed.
Do remember that as much as it might feel this way, you’re not in a court of law with your family members.
Do try to be an advocate of others’ feelings.
Don’t try to explain yourself. You often want to explain yourself when having conflicts with your family members, but you don’t have time. You’re being cut off and attacked again.
A.If you are looking for a new relationship |
B.Don’t attempt to prove yourself in the face of your loved ones |
C.The point of an argument isn’t to prove the others guilty or to win |
D.Rather than going in circles about what you think and how you feel |
E.Each accusation strikes deeper and deeper into your sense of justice |
F.Don’t talk about what happened as though you’re simply stating the facts |
G.Here are the do’s and don’ts when you are arguing with your family members |
As years went by, I realized that one of the biggest problems of adults was worry. A large majority of my students were businessmen, executives, salesmen, engineers, accountants: a cross section of all the trades and professions and most of them had problems! There were women in the classes business women and housewives. They too had problems. Clearly, what I needed was a textbook on how to conquer worry. So again, I tried to find one.
I went to the New York great public library at Fifth Avenue and 42nd Street and discovered to my astonishment that this library had only twenty-two books listed under the title WORRY. I also noticed, to my amusement, that it had one hundred and eighty-nine books listed under WORMS. Almost nine times as many books about worms as about worry! Surprising, isn't it? Since worry is one of the biggest problems facing mankind, you would think, wouldn't you, that every high school and college in the land would give a course on “How to Stop Worrying”?
Yet, if there is even one course on that subject in any college in the land, I have never heard of it. No wonder David Seabury said in his book How to Worry Successfully: “We come to maturity with as little preparation for the pressures of experience as a bookworm asked to do a ballet.”
The result? More than half of our hospital beds are all occupied by people with nervous and emotional troubles.
I looked over those twenty-two books on worry on the shelves of the New York Public Library. In addition, I purchased all the books on worry I could find; yet I couldn't discover even one that I could use as a text in my course for adults. So I decided to write one by myself.
【小题1】What made the writer realize one of the adults’ biggest problems?A.His wide reading. | B.His practical survey. |
C.His students’ real situation. | D.His scientific research. |
A.getting a book for his teaching |
B.finding some material for his new book |
C.obtaining some information for his research |
D.borrowing some books on worms for his students |
A.Worry is extremely common. | B.We lack knowledge of worry. |
C.We show no interest in worry. | D.Worry can hardly be controlled. |
A.To warn us of the possible danger of worry. |
B.To persuade us to get rid of worry. |
C.To explain why he wanted to write a book on worry. |
D.To tell us how to conquer worry. |
Between childhood and adulthood, you go through many changes — jobs, regrettable haircuts and relationships that come and go. But what about who you are at your core (核心)?
Personality is the pattern of thoughts, feelings and behaviors unique to a person. People tend to think of personality as fixed. But according to psychologists (心理学家), that’s not how it works; personality doesn’t stay the same all your life.
That’s not to say that you’re a different person each day you wake up.
A.Instead, it changes — develops with age. |
B.Growing into adulthood, what do you care about? |
C.As you grow older, does your personality change? |
D.However, you don’t have to be sad about the change. |
E.In fact, the change can’t even be noticed in the short term. |
F.Psychologists don’t study children’s personalities, however. |
G.And these early moods seem to be related to our later years of life. |
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