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How many times have you found yourself in conversations with friends, family members or loved ones and discovered that you had completely tuned out to what they were saying? How much of our attention are we truly giving to the people who are supposed to be important to us?

According to research cited by Wright State University, while most people believe they are good listeners who don’t need to improve their listening skills, the average person only listens at about 25 percent efficiency.

So why aren’t we better listeners? As a society, we may be growing more narcissistic (自我陶醉的). A 2007 study found a rise in self-centeredness and narcissism among college students. If we, as a culture, are becoming more self-centered, how can we, as individuals, work to become more caring and compassionate communicators?

We can begin by changing our attitudes toward conversations. As Stephen R. Covey wrote in The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change, “Most people do not listen with the intent to understand but to reply.” A dialogue is an opportunity to learn, to see things from a new perspective, to open your eyes to new information and possibilities. Yet, too often we engage in conversation as if it’s a debate. We speak to hear our own voices — our own pre-existing opinions. In doing so, we tend to space out when spoken to. We wait, perhaps even patiently or politely, for the other person to finish, so we can say something we feel is of value.

Playwright Wilson Mizner said, “A good listener is not only popular everywhere, but after a while, he knows something.” Listening doesn’t just expand our knowledge on an intellectual level; it enables us to have a more personal, in-depth understanding of our closest friends. Relationships are truly enriched by an equal back-and-forth exchange in communication. When these dynamics become more one-sided, we tend to lose interest and create distance in our friendships, with less trust established, less honesty exchanged.

Thankfully, we can all improve our listening skills. Maybe we aren’t as good a listener as we believe. Do we tend to focus too much on ourselves — both in positive and negative ways? Do we get distracted by an inner coach, rather than living in the moment and really engaging in what’s being said? As we learn to quiet that inner voice in our minds, we can start to open ourselves up to others, becoming better listeners, thinkers, lovers and friends.

【小题1】What is the author’s purpose in showing the social phenomena in Paragraph 1?
A.To show most people are confident about their listening skills.
B.To express his concerns about people’s lack of attention when talking.
C.To introduce the fact that people have low efficiency of listening in life.
D.To provide some information about how people behave in conversation.
【小题2】Why does the author cite the research data from the year 2007?
A.To prove college students have become more self-cenfered and narcissistic over time.
B.To show the belief in people’s listening skills is outdated and needs to be updated.
C.To provide an example of how society’s narcissism affects personal relationships.
D.To support the argument that society is becoming more self-centered and narcissistic.
【小题3】Based on the views of Stephen R. Covey and Wilson Mizner, which of the following statements is true?
A.People should listen to learn and see things from a new perspective.
B.A good listener is popular but does not necessarily know everything.
C.Most people listen with the intention to understand, not to reply.
D.We should speak to hear our own voices and pre-existing opinions.
【小题4】What does the underline phrase “space out” in Paragraph 4mean?
A.Become focused.B.Feel confused.
C.Be absent-minded.D.Remain anxious.
【小题5】Which of the following titles best captures the main idea?
A.The Decline of Listening in Modern Society
B.Improving Listening Skills for Better Relationships
C.The Impact of Narcissism on Social Communication
D.Why We Should Listen More and Speak Less
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Snowblind—it’s a frightening word. Thankfully, it’s a condition that is totally preventable.

Snow blindness is a painful, temporary loss of vision due to overexposure to the sun’s UV rays. Essentially, snow blindness is caused by a sunburned eye.

【小题1】Though it is commonly called snow blindness, the condition can (and often does) occur in the absence of snow.

The terms “snowblind” and “snow blindness” have become popular because snow is highly reflective of ultraviolet radiation. 【小题2】Also, skiing, mountain climbing and snowboarding usually take place at relatively high altitudes, where the sun’s UV rays are stronger. Combined, these factors can double your risk of getting sunburned eyes, compared with being outdoors at lower altitudes in the summertime.

【小题3】Television journalist Anderson Cooper experienced snow-free snow blindness first-hand a few years ago when he spent a couple hours on a boat in Portugal without sunglasses and ended up “blind for 36 hours”, according to his report of the incident.

Not only can you become snowblind without snow—it can happen without sunlight, too! 【小题4】For example, sun lamps can cause temporary “snow” blindness if proper eye protection is not used.

【小题5】To relieve pain or discomfort from snow blindness, stay indoors and wear sunglasses. Keep your eyes well-moistened with artificial tears. For additional relief, use over-the-counter pain relievers. Be sure to use only pain relievers you know you can take without worry of an allergic reaction. You also may find that placing a cool, dampened washcloth over your closed eyelids is comforting.

A.You don’t need snow to become snowblind.
B.It will likely affect those traveling in snowy conditions.
C.To prevent snow blindness on the slopes, wear sunglasses.
D.Sometimes it occurs from man-made sources of ultraviolet radiation.
E.In fact, snow can reflect over 80 percent of the UV rays that fall upon it.
F.Snow blindness is scary, but usually it’s temporary, and there are ways to relieve the discomfort.
G.But water and white sand also are highly reflective of the sun's UV rays, thus increasing the risk.

Many teens may feel anxious sometimes. It’s the kind of nervousness that makes you bite your nails before a big test. We spend more time online than we should. We feel good about ourselves or bad based on how many Likes and Followers we get on social media. Young people are developing a false view of life.

On the screen, we see what people want to show us. People usually only post photos where they are looking their best. They are surrounded by friends and seem that they are having a great time. No one seems sad or lonely. In short, life is fabulous. But sooner or later, our young people compare their real life to it. They find that theirs doesn’t seem as fun or exciting and grow worried that they may be missing out.

No wonder teachers are reporting more anxious students. It’s reported that a lot more college students feel ―overwhelming anxiety. The percentage jumped from 50% in 2011 to 62% in 2016. Anxiety is now the most common mental-health problem in my country. It affects nearly one-third of teens and adults.

Certainly, we can’t blame it on social media alone. We expect too much from our children and a lot of these expectations aren’t reasonable. Their schedules are packed with sports, clubs and homework. They don’t have enough free time. We want our children to succeed, and we don’t care how much it costs.

As parents, we must have more balance. On one hand, we push too hard, and on the other hand, we make life too easy for children. We shouldn’t and can’t promise our children that they will always be happy. We shouldn’t try to protect them from the problems of everyday life. Let them solve the problems in person.

【小题1】What is the text mainly about?
A.What causes teens’ nervousness.
B.How to deal with teens’ anxiety.
C.What a view of life means to people.
D.How to treat social media appropriately.
【小题2】What does the underlined word “fabulous” in paragraph 2 mean?
A.Wonderful.B.Encouraging.C.Anxious.D.Doubtful.
【小题3】Why does the author mention the numbers in paragraph 3?
A.To draw teachers’ attention.
B.To show teachers’ mental problems.
C.To present the seriousness of teens’ anxiety.
D.To show adults have more problems than teens.
【小题4】What should parents do to help their children out?
A.Try to meet their expectations.
B.Help them with their homework.
C.Give them more free time to play sports.
D.Allow them to solve their own problems in life.

What makes a sense of humour is a difficult thing to tell. Different people find different things funny, and what may seem hilarious to some might be highly rude to others. However, having a good sense of humour is important for reducing stress and getting along with others. Therefore, it’s important to think about ways to improve your sense of humour.

Look for the funny side of situations. While it can be difficult at times to find the funny side in unfortunate events when you’re having a bad day, try to think about how the situation might look like to other people, and attempt not to get too angry. Laughing over minor accidents, trips and falls will help you in preventing the loss of temper that you will regret later.

Learn some basic jokes. Some people find it hard to remember jokes, and feel left out when others are telling them. It’s worth trying to learn a few jokes that you can pull out of the bag when you need to, or regularly think about how you can turn a funny situation that occurs in daily life into an entertaining anecdote (趣闻) for later.

Look at jokes or funny cards. There are many different kinds of funny cards available, which can be a great inspiration for finding ways to improve your sense of humour. Giving an appropriate funny card to friends and family on the right occasion will show that you have a good sense of humour and are thinking about them.

Learn from friends. Look at friends that you think have a great sense of humour.   How do they deal with situations, and what kind of jokes do they make? Is there anything you can take away from their actions?

【小题1】What does the underlined word “hilarious” in the first paragraph probably mean?
A.Extremely funny.B.Quite harmful.
C.Greatly meaningful.D.Quite useful.
【小题2】How can you be humorous in tough times?
A.By looking for the funny side of situations.
B.By laughing over any accident.
C.By turning a funny situation into a joke.
D.By struggling not to lose your temper.
【小题3】What should people do for learning some basic jokes?
A.Be active and learn from friends.
B.Be creative and get well prepared.
C.Be patient and listen to others carefully.
D.Be confident and have a good memory.
【小题4】What would be the best title of the passage?
A.What Makes a Sense of Humour
B.How to Improve Your Sense of Humour
C.What’s Your Humour Style
D.Benefits of Humour

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