People disagree about meaningful and small matters on a daily basis. Sometimes you know if you speak your mind you will upset someone. However, you often must express your opinion even if you know others will disagree. By choosing your words carefully you can avoid a long-term offense(冒犯) .
“Ask people about their perspective (观点). Before being honest about how you feel, it’s important to know their perspective. This gives you a chance to show genuine interest and have a conversation.
·Put yourself in their shoes. One of the simplest ways to avoid hurting feelings is to imagine how they will respond to your statements.
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·Be polite in your responses. Whenever you try to avoid hurting others it is best to speak with kindness. Simple acts of kindness can make a big difference. They convey respect and show that you value the other person. This situation isn’t all about you speaking your mind.
·Express your perspective as opinion, not fact. This shows you value their perspective, even if you know the facts back you up. If they have an open mind, facts will change their perspective. If they do not have an open mind, facts will feel like personal attacks.
A.They have a right to be incorrect. |
B.It’s about them feeling valued. |
C.Control your words and body language. |
D.If they said that to you, would you be upset? |
E.Listening to others’ opinion is a very powerful way. |
F.Use facts and try to avoid letting your emotions run high. |
G.This may also give you opportunities to speak up and be honest. |
Junk food like potato chips, candy, cookies, and soda may make you feel momentarily happy, but they are not so good for your health.
Stay away from junk food.
Keep plenty of healthy snacks on hand. The more healthy food that is readily available for you to choose from, the easier it will be for you to keep yourself from eating it. Keeping vegetables, fresh fruits and low-fat yogurt in your refrigerator is one effective way to distract your attention from junk food
Eat plenty of healthy food early in the day. The more healthy food you eat early in the day, the less chance you will have to binge(大吃大喝)on junk food later on in the day when your willpower is lower.
It may not happen overnight, but you can learn how to stop eating junk food.
A.Make your eating settings changed |
B.Buy a cookbook with easy healthy recipes |
C.Like everything in life, it requires time and patience |
D.Kicking the junk food habit is easier said than done |
E.Water helps you to feel full and helps balance your blood sugar |
F.So it is a good idea to start your day with a big healthy breakfast |
G.Keeping junk food around when you are trying to avoid it is a recipe for failure |
Helping Your Teen Understand the Value of Money
It seems that there are more things for teens to spend money on than ever. There are expensive clothes, video games, MP3 players, and more.
Start teaching your children about money early. Starting around age 10, give them a few dollars every week for them to spend however they want.
You should also start early introducing your children to budgets (预算) and how much things cost. Have them go to the store with you or watch you pay the bills.
As your child gets older, about 13 or 14, increase their pocket money as you increase their responsibility. Once they’re more responsible, give them a budget for something bigger like clothes and make them stick to it.
Eventually, your child will probably get a job.
A.Help them choose a well-paid job. |
B.And you can also encourage them to pay the bills. |
C.Take this opportunity to teach them about savings. |
D.Soon they’ll realize how much some things really cost. |
E.Make the pocket money dependent on doing housework. |
F.Teaching your child the value of money will not happen overnight. |
G.If you aren’t made of money, it’s hard to give your kids everything they want. |
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