Anyone could be in his or her unfavorable situations, whatever their ages and social status. Adults are often ______ asking for help. It’s an act that can make people feel ______. The moment you ask for directions, after all,you reveal that you may be lost. Seeking someone’s assistance can make you feel like you are broadcasting your ______. New research suggests young children don’t seek ______ in school, even when they need it, for the same reason.
To learn more about how children think about looking for help, we asked 576 children, aged four to nine, to predict the ______ of two kids in a story. One of the characters genuinely wanted to be smart, and the other merely wanted to seem smart to others.
Children thought that the kid who wanted to seem smart would be ______ to ask for assistance. They could still conceive of (想象) situations in which the kid who wanted to seem smart would seek help: when assistance could be sought ______ (on a computer rather than in person), children thought both characters were equally likely to ask for it.
We also found that they recognize several more behaviors that might make a child appear less clever in front of fellow kids, such as ______ failure or modestly downplaying successes. Children are therefore strongly aware of several ways in which a person's actions might make them appear less ______ in the eyes of others.
However, a number of ______ can be found to help children. Our first ______ may be to motivate seeking help by emphasizing its educational benefits. But ______ barriers likely require reputation-based solutions. For example, instructors could create activities in which each student becomes an “expert” on a different topic, and then children must ask one another for help to master all of the material. If seeking help is understood as a(n) ______ classroom activity, kids may be less likely to think of it as indicative (表明) of one’s ability.
Seeking help could even be framed as ______ desirable. After all, asking for help often benefits not just the help seeker but also others listening in who have ______ questions or struggles.
【小题1】A.delighted with | B.ready for | C.serious about | D.embarrassed about |
【小题2】A.impersonal | B.sensitive | C.helpless | D.desperate |
【小题3】A.incapability | B.enthusiasm | C.generosity | D.friendliness |
【小题4】A.protection | B.individuality | C.assistance | D.personality |
【小题5】A.behavior | B.intelligence | C.success | D.capability |
【小题6】A.ready | B.unlikely | C.comfortable | D.desperate |
【小题7】A.separately | B.moderately | C.purposefully | D.privately |
【小题8】A.admitting | B.neglecting | C.avoiding | D.underestimating |
【小题9】A.friendly | B.smart | C.independent | D.reliable |
【小题10】A.theories | B.reasons | C.solutions | D.researches |
【小题11】A.mission | B.advice | C.instinct | D.barrier |
【小题12】A.instructive | B.decisive | C.intellectual | D.reputational |
【小题13】A.ordinary | B.vivid | C.achievable | D.virtual |
【小题14】A.personally | B.mentally | C.potentially | D.socially |
【小题15】A.dominant | B.similar | C.complex | D.original |