It was already half past seven and I was running late again for the dinner appointment with my wife, Eleanor. We had
_______to meet at the restaurant at seven o'clock. I felt a little uneasy, but to my
_______,I had a good excuse: A business meeting had
_______and I'd wasted no time getting to the dinner.
When I arrived at the
_______,1 apologized and told Eleanor I didn't mean to be late. She screamed, "You never mean to." Well, I
_______tell she was angry. "I'm sorry but it was not
_______," I said. Then I told her about the business meeting.
_______, my explanation seemed to make things worse, which started to drive
_______mad as well.
Several weeks later, when I
_______the situation to my friend Ken Hardy, he smiled, "You
________a classic mistake. You're stuck
________your own way of thinking. You didn't
________to be late. But that's not the point. What is
________in your communication is how your lateness affected Eleanor." He pointed out that I focused on the intention
________Eleanor focused on the result. Thus,
________of us felt misunderstood and crazy.
Thinking more about Ken's words, I
________recognized the root cause of such disagreement. It's the result of the action that really
________I should have started the conversation by expressing
________my actions affected Eleanor and
________the discussions about my intention for later, much later and even never.
Later on, after talking to Eleanor and really
________her experience of the results
of my lateness, I've managed to be on time a lot more frequently.
【小题1】A.started | B.agreed | C.continued | D.managed |
【小题2】A.relief | B.surprise | C.regret | D.sorrow |
【小题3】A.broken out | B.closed down | C.faded away | D.run over |
【小题4】A.house | B.room | C.restaurant | D.supermarket |
【小题5】A.could | B.must | C.will | D.might |
【小题6】A.movable | B.comfortable | C.acceptable | D.avoidable |
【小题7】A.However | B.Therefore | C.Moreover | D.Otherwise |
【小题8】【小题9】A.spread | B.wrote | C.translated | D.described |
【小题10】A.knew | B.made | C.found | D.took |
【小题11】A.in | B.beyond | C.for | D.against |
【小题12】A.need | B.prove | C.pretend | D.intend |
【小题13】A.funny | B.important | C.possible | D.simple |
【小题14】A.while | B.after | C.until | D.unless |
【小题15】A.all | B.none | C.both | D.neither |
【小题16】A.usually | B.merely | C.hardly | D.gradually |
【小题17】A.inspires | B.matters | C.improves | D.challenges |
【小题18】【小题19】A.compared | B.reported | C.finished | D.saved |
【小题20】A.showing | B.satisfying | C.understanding | D.destroying |