Learn to Be Responsible

How does it feel when you admit that you have done something wrong? Taking responsibility for your actions not only feels good, it teaches you to trust yourself and strengthens friendships.

What does being responsible mean?

It can be easy to blame(责怪) others or make excuses for mistakes, but being responsible means accepting that you are wrong. 【小题1】 You could say the bus was late, but being responsible means apologizing and accepting that it was your responsibility to get there on time. However, being responsible doesn’t mean taking the blame for things you can’t change. You’re only responsible for things that you can control.

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According to research, understanding you have control over your own actions makes you feel more positive and hopeful about the future. 【小题3】 For example, I remember a time I got the sofa dirty. I was going to lie about it because if my mum saw it, she would get angry. But after I told her the truth, I wasn’t in as much trouble as I thought. Instead, mom praised me for my honesty. Being responsible helps you to gain people’s trust.

How can you be responsible?

【小题4】 One way of doing this is by drawing a circle of control: what is in this circle of control and what is out of this circle. As well as being responsible for what you can change, try accepting the things you can’t. We can’t always control what happens to us. 【小题5】 We can still choose our attitude. And most of the time, attitude decides if you are truly a responsible person.