Many of us experience loneliness. The truth is that all the people, no, matter what their age or character is-even the most outgoing, wealthy and popular-experience loneliness at least sometimes.【小题1】.After all we’ve all heard “No man is an island” That’s true. We all need others in our lives.

Solomon, the wisest man who ever lived, explains: that if we want friends, we must be friendly and reach out to others. But it has risk. Because we are often afraid of no, many of us are unwilling to reach out to others. We take a safer way and wait for others to make friends with us.【小题2】

Be brave enough to step out. If you see someone whom you would like to know, don’t wait for her to make the first move.【小题3】Let her know in a non-aggressive（无攻击性的）way that you are interested in being friends with her.

【小题4】When you see someone, at school sitting alone, go over and talk to her. And don’t let popularity decide whom you reach, out to. You’ll often be surprised at the beautiful qualities behind a shy appearance.

Ask questions. Start your first conversation by, asking this, possible friend what she likes, to do or asking about her family. Be sure to ask questions that cannot be replied with “yes” or “no”. For example, don’t ask “Do you have a dog?”, 【小题5】Avoiding asking“ yes” or “no” questions makes your possible friend not end your communication with a one-word answer.