Many of us experience loneliness. The truth is that all the people, no, matter what their age or character is-even the most outgoing, wealthy and popular-experience loneliness at least sometimes.
Solomon, the wisest man who ever lived, explains: that if we want friends, we must be friendly and reach out to others. But it has risk. Because we are often afraid of no, many of us are unwilling to reach out to others. We take a safer way and wait for others to make friends with us.
Be brave enough to step out. If you see someone whom you would like to know, don’t wait for her to make the first move.
Ask questions. Start your first conversation by, asking this, possible friend what she likes, to do or asking about her family. Be sure to ask questions that cannot be replied with “yes” or “no”. For example, don’t ask “Do you have a dog?”,
A.Make friends with a popular one. |
B.Reach out to those who are lonely. |
C.Instead, say“So, tell me about your pets.” |
D.But if we want friends, we’ve got to get beyond this. |
E.It’s healthy and natural to want to be around people who care. |
F.Gather all your courage and get close to her and begin a conversation. |
G.As we all know, the famous, saying: “A friend in need is a friend in deed.” |
If you're searching for your dream graduate job, have faith. These top tips can help you get your perfect graduate job quickly.
1. Appear professional on social media.
The first thing you should be doing as a graduate job searcher is making sure you have a professional online presence.
2. Upload your CV(履历)to job sites.
Not only do job seekers use job sites, but also employers often search through them when looking for potential candidates. There's a chance that a future employer could come across your CV on a job site and realize you're the ideal candidate for them.
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The way to blow a potential employer away is to show him you have a real interest in the company. Whether it's for an application or when you're through to the interview stage, knowing your business is sure to impress. Not only this, but after spending a good hour or so reading about a company, the work they do and the role you're applying for, we can guarantee that your applicant letter will be easier to tailor.
A.Call the company for information. |
B.It's too good an opportunity to miss. |
C.And it is much more likely to impress. |
D.Research companies before applying for jobs. |
E.In fact, we think being professional is quite important. |
F.Smaller startup companies are too often overlooked by job seekers. |
G.We don't mean you have to post photos of yourself wearing a suit and tie online. |
My friend James did some first-aid training at work last week, and he asked if I’d ever done the same. “Yes,” I said, ... “and no.” Because, yes, I’ve attended several CPR (心肺复苏) sessions over the years.
What’s the problem? Every time I’ve had this type of training it’s been a perfectly good opportunity to learn.
Write questions as you learn.
Keep coming back. Put a note in your diary to test yourself in a week, then ten days after that, then a month on... leaving longer gap s between checks.
Talking to James has inspired me to book myself onto yet another CPR course. But this time I’m determined to do it right. Remember that it’s the next day when the real training begins.
A.Challenge your recall later. |
B.Test yourself once you start. |
C.Don’t waste time making notes. |
D.But no, I don’t exactly feel “trained” to save lives. |
E.It provides a shortcut to instant and permanent knowledge. |
F.And I’ve always come away with a wealth of information. |
G.Use the questions you wrote on the day to keep challenging yourself. |
Sometimes, people say that small talk is awkward and shallow. But if you do it successfully, the other person will focus on the more interesting parts of your conversation rather than the small talk itself.
●Devices down
The first step to making small talk is to put your devices away. This is a small but meaningful gesture in a world that’s totally connected over a digital network.
●Listen first
In social situations, one way to show you’re offering your full attention is to listen in an engaged way. When you’re listening, show you’re paying attention by practicing nonverbal (非语言的) cues like nodding and making eye contact with the speaker. It’s also a good active listening practice to repeat what someone just told you. For example, if someone tells you, “Wow, I haven’t seen you in three years,” repeat back, “Three years? Has it been that long?”
●Ask open questions
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When someone tells you something in a small talk conversation, respond enthusiastically. Your positivity shows you’re paying attention and also makes them feel valued and respected. This is good for building a relationship with someone you don’t know very well.
A.Be open-minded |
B.Respond enthusiastically |
C.This shows you’re actively listening |
D.You view these conversations as opportunities to learn |
E.Here are four tips that will help you make small talk in any situation |
F.When you ask about the person you’re speaking to, ask open-ended questions |
G.Putting your phone, tablet or laptop away shows your focus is completely on the person you’re talking to |
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