Life is 【小题1】 (compose) of many elements, such as family, friends, study, work, entertainment and so on. If one element 【小题2】 (dominate) your life and the others are ignored, you will lose balance and fail to take control of your life. Many people get into the cycle of coming home from work and watching TV or surfing the Internet. Relaxing 【小题3】 this may seem, it is 【小题4】 (appropriate) in the long term for personal growth. It is essential to be 【小题5】 (discipline) and make up your mind 【小题6】 (start) a change in your life. Set yourself goals which may serve as 【小题7】 (stimulate) to provide proper guidance. Once you resist allowing work to make you feel 【小题8】 (pessimism), you will get rid of the feeling of being worn 【小题9】 and be rewarded with 【小题10】 sense of accomplishment.

Are you the first or the last child in your family? Or are you a middle or an only child? Some people think 【小题1】 matters where you were born in your family. But there are different ideas about what birth order means. Some people say that oldest children, 【小题2】 are smart and strong - willed，are very likely 【小题3】 ( succeed). The reason 【小题4】 this is simple. Parents have a lot of time for their first child and give him or her a lot of attention. An only child will succeed for 【小题5】 same reason.

What 【小题6】 (happen) to the other children in the family? Middle children don’t get so much attention, so they don’t feel that important. If a family has many children, the middle one sometimes gets 【小题7】 (lose) in the crowd. The youngest child, however, often gets special treatment. Often this child grows up to be funny. But a recent study saw things quite 【小题8】 (difference). The study found that the first children believe in family rules. They don, t take many chances in 【小题9】 lives. They usually follow 【小题10】 (order). Ruies don’t mean much to later children in the family. They take chances and they often do better in life.

Thousands of us struggle with letting go of the pain that was 【小题1】(cause) by past events and circumstances. Let's face it: none of us is perfect and we all may speak of something【小题2】could hurt someone else in the process.You can't change【小题3】past. What you can do though is realizing that we are all humans who make mistakes and then【小题4】(immediate) make a decision and choose to let go of the wounds.

Firstly, you need to accept【小题5】has happened since you can't change it. Life always 【小题6】(try) to teach us new lessons and you need to be alert, study and analyze them. Secondly, make a firm decision to forgive. One of the best blessings is the【小题7】(choose) to make. You can't go from point A to point B unless you first choose to do it. Lastly, realize that holding on【小题8】the hurtful emotions will only hurt one person—YOU. Therefore, since you love and value【小题9】(you), you need to look after yourself. Begin to focus on the idea that we are all humans and could easily make mistakes from time to time. Focus on the "goodness" that is in each of us. This type of focus and self-talk makes it easier【小题10】(let) go of past hurt and move on.