Knowing how to get the conversation started is important, however, keeping it going is even more important. Here are some conversation skills that make people like you.
Invite people to share their lives
The most important conversation skill is to invite people to talk about their lives.
Ask open-ended (开放式的) questions
Open-ended questions require more than just a yes-or-no answer. Ask open-ended questions that encourage other people to start discussing a topic in detail.
Wait for your turn to talk
Whatever you do, don’t interrupt. Instead, wait patiently for your turn to talk. Interrupting is one of the quickest ways to shut down a conversation and make other people uncomfortable. Show that you value what others are saying.
Request advice
Asking for advice shows that you value someone else’s opinion. Just because you ask for advice doesn’t mean you have to follow it.
A.Almost everyone enjoys talking about themselves. |
B.You can ask for advice on both simple and serious things in life. |
C.This shows that you are listening and helps clarify what you have heard. |
D.If a person appears uncomfortable sharing something personal, change the subject. |
E.If someone is talking about something you don’t understand, ask for an explanation. |
F.Truly listen to what is being said rather than try to think of what you will say next. |
G.For example, ask, “What made you decide to pursue nursing?” or “How did you like living in Hawaii?” |
Video chat is now the go-to outlet for many social distancers longing for social interaction. But having a successful fete isn't only a question of hopping on camera with friends and kicking off. Social grace is a big part of a successful virtual party — and etiquette doesn't go out the door just because you're in your pajamas in front of a camera.
Introduce everyone to the group
Gone are the days during which you can introduce yourself to new people at your leisure. Instead, the second you click 'Join Meeting', you're pushed in front of potentially dozens of faces staring straight at you.
This is particularly problematic if not everyone on the call knows each other — Zoom itself recommends short ice-breaking sessions for everyone to introduce themselves on meetings.
"I like to use the wait room," says Tamiko Zablith, founder of Minding Manners International. "For security reasons, it means outsiders don't come crashing into your meeting. But also, you can let people come in one at a time, and then you can take that time to introduce them to the group as well."
Learn the art of the pause
Another wildly confusing thing about Zoom parties: everyone has to talk one at a time. There's no chance for small groups to organically form, for joking talk to fill a room, or for guests to talk at the same time. The whole group, no matter how large, can only listen to one person at a time.
That's why putting pauses in your speech is critical, especially since low internet speeds or weird audio may mean it's easy for someone to talk over someone else, drowning out what they have to say to the group.
"If the internet is a bit unreliable, you have those unstable signals. If I keep rambling, and the other person starts, there's that delay," says Zablith. "Work those pauses into your conversation."
Know when to change backgrounds
Using Zoom's backgrounds can actually be a courtesy to eliminate distractions behind you.
Hiding those dirty dishes or pizza boxes, or obscuring other members of the household coming and going, eliminates distractions and makes the other people feel like they're getting your full attention.
"Wouldn't it be better if that distraction just wasn't there?" Zablith says, pointing to the advantage of virtual backgrounds being able to hide anything unsightly behind you. For others, virtual backgrounds also provide a sense of comfort or normalcy to the audience.
【小题1】According to the passage, which of the following is considered impolite?A.To introduce everyone individually to the group. |
B.To use virtual backgrounds to avoid distraction. |
C.To put several pauses in your online speech. |
D.To keep silent when joining in the meeting. |
A.Internet speed matters little in Zoom parties |
B.the wait room makes it easy to introduce everybody |
C.for some, real room background has a comforting effect |
D.pauses in speaker's conversation may delay the conference |
A.To attract more people to use Zoom. |
B.To explain how to maintain social manners. |
C.To offer guidance on Zoom social etiquette. |
D.To compare online meetings with offline ones. |
The common cold is a virus (病毒) that influence your nose or throat, passing from one person to another by touch. Colds are very common, especially in the weak of poor health.
Staying humid (湿润的) can help replace water you lose from a fever.
Studies have shown that home treatment of chicken soup can lighten sickness. Eating chicken soup as you can may help you get over your cold more quickly. You don’t have to make chicken soup on your own to get the benefits.
Throat lozenges (含片) containing sickness-preventing elements can help treat a sore throat.
A.The store-bought, canned kind works just as well. |
B.Getting enough rest can help you recover more quickly. |
C.Taking home rest can prevent you from getting a cold. |
D.Chicken is available on the market and can be cooked at home. |
E.Drugs that have such elements may also help to reduce physical pains. |
F.Enough drinking may help you feel better and get over the cold more quickly. |
G.Though there is no quick cure for it, most people won’t recover in a short time. |
Being a good friend isn’t always easy,but taking the time to develop a lasting friendship is worth the effort.As the years pass,you will realize that each friendship you keep is priceless.
Keep your promises.
Don’t ever make a promise that you can’t keep.If you say you’ll hang out with a friend and an unexpected situation arises,explain the situation.Give your friend a gift and tell him or her you are sorry.Nobody is perfect,and it’s okay if you break a promise once in a blue moon.
Apologize when you’ve made a mistake.
To be truly supportive,you will have to be able to watch out for your friend when he/she is having a difficult time.If you sense that your friend is getting into some trouble,help him or her away from the situation by not being afraid to speak up about it.
Give your friend some space when he or she needs it.
Part of being supportive means supporting the fact that your friend won’t always want to spend time with you.Learn to step back and give your friend space.
A.However,don’t make it a regular thing. |
B.Help your friend deal with his or her struggles. |
C.Learn to forgive your friend and move forward. |
D.Of course,to have a good friend,you must be one. |
E.If you want your friend to believe in you,you can’t act like you’re perfect. |
F.Understand if your friend wants to be alone or to have a walk with other people. |
G.Take the time to truly understand your friend when he or she is talking to you. |
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