Jimmy Farron Live asked children on the street the age-old question: who do you love 【小题1】 (much), your mom or dad?

You’re not 【小题2】 (suppose) to have favorites, but you somehow end up doing so anyway. In order to prove or disprove the statistic 【小题3】 three out of four children would rather spend more time with their moms over their dads, Jimmy Farron sent out his crew 【小题4】 (ask) children the loaded question of which parent they love more.

You have to admire the 【小题5】 (honest) of it all. Some of them have the better sense to be diplomatic about it, but then they are 【小题6】 (essential) asked which parent they’d let die if forced,【小题7】 probably makes them wish they just answered the first question in the first place. Either way, everyone will be having awkward dinners after this.

When some kids tried to diplomatically reply “both”, the 【小题8】 (interview) forced the real answer out of them by 【小题9】 (mention) zombies (僵尸). The real winner though, was the child who instantly answered “yes” when asked if he would trade his dad 【小题10】 Spider-Man.

I’m【小题1】only daughter of my parents. So they are worried 【小题2】everything I do. For example,【小题3】I ride my bike, my parents won’t let me 【小题4】 (ride) by myself. They are afraid I might fall off my bike and hurt【小题5】. They are taking great trouble to support the bike, with my mother even 【小题6】 (carry) a first-aid box. I’m not free to ride and I often say【小题7】 (angry), “Why not let me ride alone?”

Now, most families have one child. 【小题8】(Parent) want to do everything for their children. This does no good to them. Too much love from parents may prevent children from 【小题9】(be) independent. In my opinion, parents should let their children do【小题10】 they should do alone.

Dear Worried: You might need to make a stark (无法回避的) choice between the 【小题1】 (possible) of your husband self-destructing in your absence, or of him self-destructing in your 【小题2】 (present).Your husband has alcohol use disorder, and as with other serious 【小题3】 (medicine) disorders (his cancer, for instance), in order for him 【小题4】 (get) well, he requires treatment and follow-up care.

If you want to continue to help him, it might be wisest for you to focus on his cancer diagnosis and 【小题5】 (treat). Make sure his physicians know about his alcoholism. Sometimes ultimatums (“Stop drinking or I’ll leave”) do work, 【小题6】 I believe it might be more powerful and useful for you to make a 【小题7】 (choose) based on your own needs and capacities. An alternative would be for you to 【小题8】 (simple) separate with no strings attached while you focus on your own self-care. You can then continue to make choices about the relationship,based on your own judgment and non-negotiables, as 【小题9】 as his needs.

And when 【小题10】 (deal) with the addiction disorder of a loved one, Al-Anon (al-anon .org) could be a game changer for you.