I still remember the days my grandmother used to take me on long walks along the summer grass. The sun was always shining on the small roots of the grass on the ground. I remember noticing how, even though the roots were small, they still managed to stick out. Even though there were other things that could attract people to the parts of the grass, somehow the mind always seemed to lead to the roots, or, more precisely, where it all started its origins.
I have learned to realize early on that if you come from a culture that is different from the mainstream culture, eventually you will have to choose. And sometimes, choosing isn’t an easy process. Growing up as a Korean American in the US, I have often felt the need to have to choose between the two cultures that I live by. Even with friends, I would be the outsider that is stuck somewhere in the middle.
On some days, I would choose to be the “white” version of myself, dyeing my hair blond, On other days, I would feel the need to relocate(迁移)to the Asian part of me. The part of me, also known as the “roots” of the grass, has always been kept hidden for whatever reason. Whenever I redye my own hair black, I get the feeling that I am preserving some of the roots that I may have left behind.
Sometimes, we just want to preserve those roots that we have kept hidden. We try extra hard to become “a part of”something we might have left behind. However, it is more meaningful if we allow that thing (culture in thin case) to become part of our daily lives. This way, we will become learn likely to forget “this” part of ourselves.
【小题1】What did the author think of the roots of the grass on the ground?A.They were too small to be seen. |
B.They grew well in the summer daylight. |
C.They looked less attractive than the leaves. |
D.They were more likely to grab people’s attention. |
A.She would feel stuck between two cultures. |
B.She would feel desperate to share similarities with them. |
C.She would feel unconcerned with any culture. |
D.She would feel annoyed about their mainstream culture. |
A.To create a new self-image. |
B.To hide the Asian part of her. |
C.To preserve her cultural roots. |
D.To make her hair look natural. |
A.The way to preserve our cultural roots. |
B.The attitude we should hold to different cultures. |
C.When in Rome do as the Romans do. |
D.The longest journey begins with the first step. |
I know many people who spend time thinking about all the might-have-beens, what-ifs and opportunities they’ve missed. They spend their lives constantly feeling like they’ve missed out on something big. Their boats have sailed. They’ve missed their one and only opportunity to be rich, famous and do something really amazing.
I know someone who used to enter the same numbers in the lottery every week. One week, she was too busy to get the ticket before the agency closed. And her numbers came up. There were no winners that week and the jackpot money rolled over to the following week: 10 million pounds. She’s never forgiven herself. Since then, she’s lived her life feeling like she’s missed her boat, the only opportunity she’ll ever have to be happy.
I suspect most of us would be pretty upset if that happened to us. Now, the question is, would we allow it to rule the rest of our lives? Or should we consider the possibility that it happened for a reason?
Now, I’ll admit that I’d have a very hard time saying anything along those lines for quite a while if something like that happened to me. But, if I knew that I was putting every effort into being wealthy or happy, then I would also know that just because something didn’t happen the way it ought to happen, everything would still be alright. I will be able to relax and let it go.
Nothing ever happens to me, but everything always happens for me. So long as I’m keeping my eye on my goals, everything that happens is the Universe moving me towards my goals. It’s definitely easier said than done, particularly at first. But it is doable. It’s simply a choice.
You haven’t missed your boat. Your boat is still there. Don’t waste your life crying over someone else’s boat. Step onto your own.
【小题1】When her lottery numbers came up, she wasn’t the winner because _____________.A.she couldn’t forgive herself | B.she was too busy to buy the ticket |
C.she forgot the correct numbers | D.she has missed her boat |
A.The world can’t change me. |
B.I can change the world by working hard. |
C.I have never missed any good opportunity. |
D.Whatever happens to me is beneficial to me. |
A.You Can’t Miss Your Boat. |
B.You Shouldn’t Often Change Your Goals. |
C.You Forgive Yourself as soon as Possible. |
D.You Can’t Step onto the Boat that Has Sailed. |
If you play sports, you may have felt stressed from time to time. Coaches, parents, and even friends can place unrealistic expectations upon you.
Is it a bad thing for others to have high expectations of you? Not necessarily!
Then, Rosenthal followed the children for two years. He found that when teachers expected these kids to do well, that’s exactly what happened.
The next question was obvious: Why? Rosenthal found that higher expectations affected the teachers’ interactions with these students. For example, they gave these kids more time to answer questions. They also gave more support.
The similar result has been repeated in many other places. It’s sometimes called the expectancy elect. So it’s important to hold high but realistic expectations for people. Start by getting to know those around you and understanding their goals and dreams. Then, support them by holding properly high expectations and showing you believe in them.
A.And ask them to do the same for you. |
B.If not, they can bring about harmful results. |
C.This can make it hard for you to do your best. |
D.Can playing team sports help you stay healthy? |
E.Sometime they’re just showing they believe in you. |
F.Can expectations affect you in a positive way, though? |
G.The students were also given more chances and more recognition from their teaches. |
People generally see themselves through achievements. In doing that, they end up caring more about their image than the reality of who they actually are. Rather than their work doing the talking, they end up defining themselves by external markers that they hope will earn them respect.
The problem with this is that it encourages both themselves and other people to judge their worth based on some relatively unimportant measure. For example, one day, their educational diploma (文凭) may overshadow what they actually learned. Therefore, a better way to know a person, I think, is to ask a different set of questions: What motivates them? What makes them ache? What do they long for?
It’s in this spirit that I want to publicly share my values. They are the compass (罗盘) that guides my life. The kindest and most sincere thing I can do is to see, recognize, and understand another person before I make judgments. From there, I can learn to treat others appropriately, depending on the context, learning from my mistakes with time and experience. It’s just a reminder that life is hard for all of us, while at the same time accepting that it’s important we are all also held accountable for our actions.
I have learned that we are all deeply self-interested. I hope to be self-aware enough to check out of the power and status games. That means I’m not competing with anyone for a shiny object; I’d rather compete with myself. It’s about becoming so uniquely different that it would be an insult for me to measure myself against someone else. I believe if I do the work to be internally free from the pull of the power and status games, then I can add value to others based on my unique knowledge and experience.
If this resonates with (与……共鸣) you, I invite you to join me on this journey in understanding and relating to this complex world. It’s a wonderful mystery, and I think together we can better define it — not just personally, but also collectively.
【小题1】According to the article, which of the following is TRUE?A.The external markers are better ways to know a person. |
B.People generally judge others’ worth by what they have achieved. |
C.The author is someone who is keen on power games. |
D.Learning from mistakes is the first step of treating others kindly. |
A.Be relatively similar to. | B.Cause something to be stronger than. |
C.Make something less important. | D.Block off light from something. |
A.Life is hard, so we shouldn’t criticize others when they are not responsible. |
B.One should overcome self-interest in order to judge others objectively. |
C.Everyone is unique, so showing off uniqueness is an insult to others. |
D.One should see and understand another person using a real compass. |
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