Arguing (争辩) with your parents is totally natural for teens. From your hairstyle, your friends, your marks at school to your television habits and your future plans, it might just seem that you argue with your parents about everything. While this is not generally a pleasant state of affairs, it is normal and it will most likely pass.
Argue Fairly
If you are a teen arguing with your parents, remember that your parents love you and only want what is best for you. If you must argue with them, argue fairly by:
•Allowing each person in the argument to speak their mind.
•Refusing to cut in when they are speaking
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Argue Respectfully
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•Sitting still and staying calm.
•Refusing to behave angrily such as kicking,throwing or hitting anything
Argue Only When Needed
Before arguing with your parents, decide what type of teen you want to be and what compromises you are willing to make in order to achieve your goals.
| A．No one likes to argue |
| B．Keeping silence at all times |
| C．Sticking only to the topic at hand |
| D．It’s necessary to argue with your parents |
| E．No matter how heated things may get during an argument |
| F．Keeping your voice lowered at all times and refusing to shout |
| G．In the meantime, remember to argue fairly and respectfully and only when needed |
