When Facebook was entirely used by people under the age of 25, things were simple. But now an important social question has appeared — should you “friend” your child, or accept a parent as a “friend”?
Lindsay Stewart, 15, completely understands why you’d refuse a parent’s friend request. Her parents have agreed on not becoming Facebook friends. Lindsay says, “She said she wasn't going to ask to be friends. My brother and I were relieved (放心的). ”
Though there may be nothing embarrassing or secrets being discussed, it’s not a place she wants her mother to have access to. Lindsay explains, “My mum is my mum. I like her, but she's not necessarily what I’d call my friend.”
Mum is Sandy Stewart, a 50 year old Indiana-born mother of two now living in South London. Mrs. Stewart has strong opinions about what role a parent should play in the world’s biggest networking site — stay away from your children. “I wouldn't dream of being friends. There’s no way,” Mrs. Stewart insists and suggests trying “friending” could seem like an invasion of privacy (侵犯隐私).
Yet Tim Harness, 54, and his daughter Josie, 18, are “friends” on Facebook and perfectly happy. Josie left home in the summer for university in Plymouth, and Mr. Harness can see her online. “I have a little look at her photos now and again,” he explains. “She seems to be having a good time.”
Josie tells me it’s reassuring (令人安心的) to know that her father’s checking up on her every few days. She has plenty of family friends and what they see on her Facebook doesn’t concern her. “ The worst dad might see is a photo of me a bit drunk, ” she says.“Is it an invasion of privacy? Not really. Everyone has Facebook these days. In my view, the only reason why you wouldn't want them is if you've got something to hide.”
【小题1】Which of the following best describes Lindsay’s parents?| A．Understanding. | B．Outgoing (外向的). |
| C．Warmhearted. | D．Caring. |
| A．Social websites are not safe enough. |
| B．Parents should care more for their kids in real life. |
| C．Tim Harness checked up on Josie’s Facebook with her agreement. |
| D．It is only an excuse for kids to refuse their parents on Facebook. |
