Good neighbors are a lot like electricity or running water: We don’t know how much we depend on them until we don’t have them. 【小题1】 Here is how to develop your relationships with these very important people in your life.

• Reach out to the newcomers.

These days, the old Welcome Wagon (欢迎礼车) is a thing of the past. 【小题2】 If they have kids, tell them where the children in the neighborhood live. Introduce the best places to eat and sleep. Invite them over for coffee or tea when they get settled, give them your number, and point to your house as you say good-bye.

• Avoid causing inconvenience.

Return anything that you borrow from a neighbor, such as tools, in good condition as soon as you’ve finished with them. Replace anything that belongs to your neighbor if damaged. 【小题3】 Such acts of consideration will have your neighbors talking—and the talk will be good.

• Make time for friendships.

If you value a friendship with your neighbors, spend time with them. Better yet, you might even consider throwing a get-together in their honor. Deliver the invitations in person to everyone who lives on your street and chat with each for five minutes before moving on to the next house. 【小题4】 So you can plan for proper food and music.

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Help to bring in the mail for the elderly neighbor when there is a heavy rain. When your neighbor forgets to take in his rubbish cans, roll them back into his yard. If you’re truly concerned, you’ll give a bunch of flowers or a helping hand when it’s needed. All it takes to develop your relationship with neighbors is the respect for their feelings.