We high school students do have some growing pains, but we can get rid of them correctly and wisely.【小题1】, some of us are upset about their body styles and looks. It's unnecessary and it's not important at all. We needn't care 【小题2】it. It is one's inner beauty that 【小题3】 (matter).Second, we sometimes seem to be misunderstood by our teachers, parents and classmates. 【小题4】(face) with this,we can find a proper time to have a heart-to-heart talk with them, trying 【小题5】( remove) the misunderstanding. Some of us have fewer friends. I think 【小题6】(be) open-minded and friendly will do you good. Third, we may fall behind others,【小题7】makes us stressed.Actually we can encourage 【小题8】to work efficiently, full of 【小题9】(determine).At last, some of us don't have much pocket money, so they feel unhappy.【小题10】 (actual), so long as we have some, that's enough. And we can learn how to spend money.

Friends make up a huge part of most people’s lives, but over time, friendships can fade (褪色) unless they 【小题1】 (maintain) carefully. Putting effort into friendships is key to 【小题2】 (enable) them to stay strong.

Scientists have found that friendship plays a 【小题3】 (significant) important role in our mental (心理的) health. Spending time with friends can increase our feelings of well-being, make us happy, 【小题4】 improve our overall mental health.

There is no one way 【小题5】 (keep) friendships for good. In fact, not every friendship is meant to last forever, and sometimes it might pain us. “Being yourself” is one of the 【小题6】 (old) suggestions on making friends. To maintain strong friendships, you ought to try to be yourself so that you can exactly describe your needs and wants to someone else, giving them the opportunity to care for you in the best way.

Whoever your friends are, their actions are out 【小题7】 your control. They may not choose to work toward being the best self they can be. 【小题8】 only one you can control is yourself. Therefore, you may sometimes have to learn how to let those friendships go, or learn to put 【小题9】 (distant) between you and the other person if you often feel 【小题10】 (misunderstand) or disrespected by them. Not every friend has to be a close friend, just like not every friendship will last forever.

Making decisions can be very hard. It’s easy to get 【小题1】(lose) in what should or should not be done rather than actually making the decision. When you have something important 【小题2】(decide), try this.

Okay, you have a decision to make. Get out a piece of paper. On one side of the paper, write down the positive outcomes 【小题3】 will follow this decision. On 【小题4】 other side of the paper, write down the negative ones. Look at everything you have written down, weighing it, and give   【小题5】(you) some time to make your choices. It’s a simple decision-making process, 【小题6】 that does not mean your choice is going to be easy.

To gain new ideas, ask other people you respect 【小题7】 their advice and opinions, after describing the decision you are facing. Speak openly with your   family and trusted 【小题8】(friend). This can be 【小题9】(help) because another person can make the situation clear by 【小题10】(offer) an unexpected opinion.