In 2016, inspired by a challenge called the “16 for 16”, where a mother gave her daughter $1,600 when she turned 16 if she stayed off social media, Lorna Klefsaas decided to up the ante (赌注) to two extra years and $200 more for her son, Sivert Klefsaas.
As a 12-year-old, Sivert wasn’t using social media much. The only app he had prior to the bet was Snapchat — which he deleted a day after trying it out. So it wasn’t too difficult to live without social media, and he didn’t think about it much during the six years. “I wouldn’t say there was ever a time when I thought I was about to break,” he said. “As it went on, it was more of a pride thing.”
Lorna never had to check for any secretly downloaded apps. “I got to avoid all the unnecessary drama that was on there. I had my friends to keep me up to date on the latest information or trends.” Sivert said. “It meant I had more time to focus on my grades and sports instead.”
On February 19, 2022, Sivert claimed his prize. Now $1,800 richer, Sivert hasn’t thought about what to buy, but it’ll likely be something for his dorm room at the University of St. Paul, which he’ll attend in the fall.
After Sivert’s success, Lorna turned to Facebook to share the challenge. She said it was some of the best money she ever spent. Other parents seemed interested in trying it out too. “We are certainly not against social media, but it’s the healthy using of it,” Lorna noted. “It’s about not letting yourself get weighed down by it, or addicted to it, or affected by things that people post.”
Now Sivert has a new perspective on staying off social media. “It was awesome. Ah, what about 6 more years? Thank you, Mom.”
【小题1】Why did Lorna bet her son?A.To challenge. | B.To persuade. | C.To punish. | D.To imitate. |
A.He almost became broken down. |
B.He jumped at the idea and stuck to it. |
C.He tried out his new app continuously. |
D.He just downloaded an app, Snapchat. |
A.By being supervised by his mother. |
B.By watching dramas in the theater. |
C.By aiming at his academic standards. |
D.By dreaming of his prize with eagerness. |
A.A successful 18-for-18 bet. | B.A social media campaign. |
C.Sivert, a boy who won the bet. | D.Lorna, a mother who awarded her son. |
How to Talk so Parents will Listen
As most of us know, talking and listening don’t go smoothly every time. Emotions and past experiences can get in the way.
Will parents take you seriously, believe what you say, listen to and respect your opinions, and hear you out? A lot depends on your parents. Some parents are easy to talk to, some are great listeners, and some are hard to deal with.
So here are some guidelines to consider when talking to parents:
Be clear and direct. Be as clear as you can about what you think, feel, and want. Give details that can help parents understand your situation.
Be honest. If you’re always honest, a parent will be likely to believe what you say. If you sometimes hide the truth or add too much drama, parents will have a harder time believing what you tell them.
Try to understand their point of view.
Try not to argue or complain. Using a tone that’s friendly and respectful makes it more likely that parents will listen and take what you say seriously. It also makes it more likely that they’ll talk to you in the same way.
A.Pick a good time to talk. |
B.If you lie,they’ll find it hard to trust you. |
C.Maybe you need to break the bad news to a parent. |
D.But some of what happens depends on you, too. |
E.If you have a disagreement, can you see your parents’ side? |
F.Of course, this is hard for any of us when we’re feeling heated about something. |
G.They can listen better or be more helpful if they understand what you mean and what’s really going on. |
My parents never once spoke of the stress of having to pay for college, but I knew enough to appreciate that it was there. Therefore, when my French teacher announced that she’d be leading an optional class trip to Paris over one of our breaks for those who could come up with the money to do it, I didn’t even bother to raise the issue at home.
Yet one evening my parents sat me down, looking puzzled. My mom had learned about the France trip through my friend’s mom.
“Why didn’t you tell us?” she said.
“Because it’s too much money.”
“That’s actually not for you to decide, Michelle,” my dad said gently, almost offended.
“And how are we supposed to decide, if we don’t even know about it?”
I looked at them both, unsure of what to say. My mother glanced at me, her eyes soft. My father had changed out of his work uniform and into a clean white shirt. They were in their early forties then, married nearly twenty years. Neither one of them had ever vacationed in Europe. They never took beach trips or went out to dinner. They didn’t own a house. We were their investment, me and my brother. Everything went into us.
A few months later, I boarded a flight to Paris with my teacher and a dozen or so of my classmates from Whitney Young. We would stay in a hostel, tour the Louvre and the Eiffel Tower. We’d buy snacks from stands on the street and walk along the banks of the Seine. We’d speak French like a bunch of high school kids from Chicago, but we’d at least speak French.
As the plane pulled away from its gate that day, I looked out my window and back at the airport, knowing that my mother stood somewhere behind its black-glass windows, dressed in her winter coat and waving me on. I remember all the details. I remember the jet engines firing, shockingly loud. And then we were rattling down the runway and beginning to tilt upward as the acceleration seized my chest and pressed me backward into my seat for that strange, in-between moment that comes before finally you feel lifted.
【小题1】Why didn’t the author tell her parents about the France trip?A.She didn’t get on well with her parents. |
B.She thought her parents couldn’t afford it. |
C.She wanted lo save money for her college. |
D.She had already had plans for the vacation. |
A.Strict and ambitious. | B.Devoted but stubborn. |
C.Loving and supportive. | D.Caring but picky. |
A.Visit a few tourist sites. | B.Take French courses. |
C.Practice French with local kids. | D.Go on a boat tour on the Seine. |
A.The eagerness of pursuing her dream. |
B.The sadness of leaving her mother. |
C.Her nervousness about the future. |
D.Her deep impression of the experience. |
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