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One of my close friends seems to be distancing himself from me now. I have tried facing him, who just pretends I’m not there, and I’ve asked for advice from other friends. I feel I’m not good enough. What am I doing wrong to make someone act in such a manner toward me?

If you also suffer from such a situation, you probably have come across a great principle of psychology: the tendency to see reality only through your own feelings and perspective. You will find a much smoother path through the social world if you recognize that not everything that happens to you is about you. In fact, many other possibilities exist. Perhaps your friend is busy with other matters or is dealing internally with problems of his own.

What’s troubling you is the double dose(剂量)of negativity about yourself—you assume you’ve done something wrong and, facing your friend’s disturbing behavior, you’re quick to call in bad feelings about yourself. As Eleanor Roosevelt said, “No one can make you feel bad without your permission.”

We humans are all imperfect creatures: if there is some aspect of your personality or behavioral style that you feel needs improvement, then you’re just like everyone else. Studies show that a large number of people at every age want to better some fundamental aspect of themselves.

The situation you’re in calls for inquiry, which is especially helpful in repairing social relationships. If you want to know what’s going on, you might approach your friend directly by saying how much you’re feeling shut out from your friendship, that you miss it, and that you’d like to know what seems to have gone off the track. You’ll get an honest response only by asking straight. And if it turns out that you did do something that wasn’t well received, you can decide whether it’s something about you that needs fixing.

【小题1】How does the author introduce the topic of the text?
A.By making a comparison.B.By raising a question.
C.By providing a definition.D.By describing an experience.
【小题2】What’s the cause of the author’s suffering from the situation?
A.The improper manners.B.The negative thinking.
C.The ignorance of friends.D.The lack of psychology.
【小题3】What can be learned from the studies mentioned in Paragraph 4?
A.People like to follow others’ steps.
B.It’s important to have a good personality.
C.People desire to improve themselves at all ages.
D.It takes time and effort to become a perfect person.
【小题4】What does the author advise in the last paragraph?
A.Putting yourself in your friend’s shoes.B.Caring nothing but your personal affairs.
C.Coming straight to the point with friends.D.Fixing the problems by your own efforts.
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【小题2】. Some people may have moved to a different place and some people may want to make new friends within the town they have been living in for years.

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Meet new friends through friends you already have. 【小题5】. If you and your old friend have things in common, then most likely (可能的) you will have things in common with their other friends.

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There’s no doubt that when it comes to friendship,you want positive people in your life and not negatives ones.【小题1】 .Support when you need it. With positive friends,you don’t need to beg for help when you need it because chances are they will be there for you without asking.【小题2】     .Health benefits of being positive.The more positive friends you have,the better you will be at remaining optimistic yourself.【小题3】 . For example,it helps people to deal with stress and illness better.Health benefits may include lower rates of depression,a greater ability to throw off colds,and a reduced risk of developing disease.Bring out the best in you.【小题4】 . This means trying new things,achieving goals,and having the kind of life you dreamed of for yourself.With positive people in your life,you’11 feel more comfortable sharing your goals because your friends will give you the emotional push you need to go after what you want in life.Attracting More Positive FriendsYou naturally attract the kinds of friends who are most like you.So if you’re a downer,you’11 probably find that negative people flock to you.【小题5】 . The more you are able to maintain a positive attitude,the more likeminded people you’11 attract in return.

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Ann was my best friend. She had come to play half an hour ago and I didn't want her to leave. "Your mother said you could stay an hour." I said.

Ann pointed at the Teddy Bear on my desk. "I'll stay if you give me your Teddy Bear." she said.

I couldn't imagine giving it to her. It was a special gift from Aunt Reba on my tenth birthday. My aunt was a beautiful and kind woman who was never too busy to spend time with me. The day she died I cried for hours unable to believe that I would never see her again. Now when I saw the Teddy Bear I was filled with memories(回忆)of Aunt Reba.

“Come on,” Ann shouted, “I'm your best friend."

I don't know what came over me but I really wanted someone to play with me. So I handed Ann the Teddy Bear! Then she stayed.

That evening I went to bed without dinner. The memories of Aunt Reba brought tears to my eyes. How ashamed I felt. I was sad all night.

Alone in the dark I asked myself "Is Ann really my best friend?”

At school the next day I found Ann. I asked for the Teddy Bear. She was surprised at first. Then she thought for a few seconds and finally said "Okay, I don't like it anyway."

After that Ann and I stopped playing together. Through the years I have had other best friends. I have come to understand that best friends are people who want to spend time with you and they ask nothing in return.

【小题1】Why didn't the writer want Ann to leave?
A.Because the writer wanted someone to play with so much.
B.Because Ann's mother wanted her to do so.
C.Because Ann didn't want to leave.
D.Because the writer wanted to give Ann Teddy Bear.
【小题2】From the passage what do we learn about Aunt Reba?
A.She was still alive.B.She was too busy to spend time with the author.
C.She was kind and beautiful.D.She was 10 years old.
【小题3】The Teddy Bear was__________.
A.a gift from AnnB.a gift from Aunt Reba
C.the writer's auntD.the writer's best friend
【小题4】The best title of the passage may be "_________"
A.The Teddy BearB.Aunt Reba
C.My Tenth BirthdayD.Best Friends

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