How to make friends at a new school

Starting with a new school can be difficult. Everything seems to be different，and you don’t even know where to go for your own classes.【小题1】 However，if you use these skills，you can quickly make new friends.

【小题2】 If some people don’t accept you，they’re not the kind of friends you need. People often stay together because they have similar interests.

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Remember to be nice and friendly to the people you meet at your new school. Also，remember to be as helpful as possible!

A smile goes a long way. When you walk in the halls, don’t keep your eyes on the floor. Raise your head and make eye contact (目光接触) with other people.【小题4】 Introduce yourself. Tell them your name and where you’re from.

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You like it when people use your name，and so do other people. People may become angry if you just begin by saying “Hey” each time. Besides，ask them in a kind way if they have a nickname (昵称). You’d be surprised how often this might come in handy.

Keeping a schedule for your day will help you manage your time more efficiently.【小题1】Scheduling your day allows you to self- regulate and track your own behavior by keeping records of what you need to do and have done.

Obtain a calendar or planner. Make sure the calendar has appropriate space for you to list your tasks. Some calendars offer weekly, daily, or hourly planners. A notebook can also be used. Choose whatever best suits your wants and needs. Whatever you choose, commit to your choice. Do not try to have one planner for work, one for school, etc.【小题2】

Organize your tasks. Electronic calendars allow you to mark tasks in different colors. For example, you can color work-related things red, school-related things blue, housework green, vacations orange, and exercise pink.【小题3】Simply use colored pens or pencils or highlighters. Once you’ve differentiated the different types of tasks you need to schedule, you can work to prioritize them.

Schedule a time for each task.【小题4】For example, you may have scheduled time in a given day to study (2 hours), work out (1 hour), write two emails (30 minutes), and walk the dog (30 minutes). It’s key to allow you the necessary amount of time to complete each task; you’ll only stress yourself out if you schedule yourself too tightly and aren’t realistic about the amount of time things take.

【小题5】Keep some free space at the bottom of your schedule for low-priority things coming up later in the week. If you have time today or at any other point during your week, you can begin working on those items to get ahead. These additional tasks might include going through your closet or organizing your tax filing system at home.

How to Plan a Holiday Trip

【小题1】 Whether it's to grandma's house, a family reunion or simply a holiday getaway, these yearly road trips can often be the source of dread and stress. The thought of being trapped in the car with restless children or the possibility of car trouble along the way is enough to make anyone consider staying home. 【小题2】

Plan out the route for your car trip. If you're planning on driving to your holiday destination, a little planning can help make your trip easy and uneventful. 【小题3】 Remember, it's likely that you won't be the only person on the road during the holidays, and traffic is always a factor. Alternate routes or shortcuts can help reduce time spent in traffic jams and get you to your destination sooner. This information can also come in handy in case of road construction or other situations that might block your primary route.

【小题4】 Although traveling by air can be quick and convenient, it can also be much more expensive. Start planning your trip early to take advantage of advance purchase discounts and avoid sold out flights. Many airlines become extremely busy during the holidays so booking in advance can also help ensure that you get the flights that you want. High traffic destinations such as New York, Los Angeles or Atlanta can be extremely crowded during the holidays. If you have the option, consider booking your flight to a nearby airport and renting a car for the short drive to your destination.

Consider your luggage needs. If you're traveling by car, the issue of luggage is only important with regards to the amount of room needed. Before you begin packing, think about how many people will be in your vehicle and how much room they will need to travel comfortably. This could affect the number of bags that you can take along. 【小题5】 Not only is the possibility of lost luggage an issue, but most airlines now charge extra for checked baggage.

For a family of four, carrying a few bags each could result in several hundred dollars worth of baggage fees during your trip. Try to pack as lightly as possible.