Shyness is normal and it is not considered as a mental problem. All people have been shy at one time or another. Even the most confident people experienced being shy.
You probably are wondering why you are shy. It may be because of the environment you were used to or the way you were brought up. Certain events or incidents in the past may also lead to the reason why you are shy now.
One of the negative sides of being shy is having the tendency to be passive. Most of the time shy people can’t stand up for themselves and what they believe is right.
While shyness has negative aspects, it has positive sides. Shy people are usually good observers and do not get themselves into too much trouble because they try to observe their environment or any situation before they act.
A.But in most cases, shyness proves to be genetic. |
B.They are sensitive and accustomed to getting suspicious. |
C.Because some people are born to be shy, they let it go hang. |
D.So if you’re feeling shy, don’t worry because you are not alone. |
E.They are not hot-headed and think twice before making any decisions. |
F.Although shyness is something from birth, it can be improved over time. |
G.They avoid crowds by nature and stay away from groups and social interactions. |
The Science of Recreational Fear
From peek-a-boo to Halloween haunted houses, research shows that recreational fear can teach us to face scary situations. The “paradox of horror” is that being scared, under the right circumstances, can be fun.
Having fun with fear is an “extremely important tool for learning,” said Mathias Clasen, director of the Recreational Fear Lab at Aarhus University in Denmark. “We learn something about the dangers of the world. We learn something about our own responses: What does it feel like to be afraid? How much fear can I take?”
Horror movies have gotten more popular. And in one survey of more than 1,000 Americans, conducted by Clasen, 55% described themselves as horror fans.
Even babies like being a little spooked (惊的). Peek-a-boo is “an infant jump scare,” Clasen said.
After this rush, many people experience an uplifted mood. One study examined how 262 adults felt before and after they entered an extreme haunted house.
A.So why do we like it? |
B.Fifty percent of people said they felt better after the visit. |
C.And recreational fear, as it is rightly named, could benefit us, too. |
D.Playing with fear helps us learn what our body does under pressure. |
E.Horror, though, is not the only genre of what people find scary fun, he said. |
F.We define recreational fear broadly as a mixed emotional experience of fear and enjoyment. |
G.Classic childhood games of tag and hide-and-seek are just like the real scenes of predator vs. prey. |
Being confident for me as a foreign instructor means calmly asking the student to repeat what he or she has said if I did not get it. Pretending to understand what you actually did not may just bring yourself embarrassment or even disgrace. But the time I most need to be confident is when my students come to my office and bargain about the grades I have given for their speeches. (The course I'm teaching here is Public speaking). Modesty is a trait highly valued in China, but it won't be of much help here if you want to survive and succeed in a good American graduate program.
【小题1】To compete with American students it's very important to .
A.be quite confident |
B.be polite and friendly |
C.have more discussions with them |
D.understand what they think about |
A.gives a silly or simple answer |
B.tries to seize any chance to speak in class |
C.shows no interest in the course |
D.is considered to have no opinion of his own |
A.he asks a student to repeat what he has said |
B.the students bargain with him |
C.he pretends to know what he doesn't |
D.he has to give a speech |
A.we should also remain modest in America |
B.modesty doesn't help you much in America |
C.Americans also like modest people |
D.modesty can help you through an American graduate program |
A.American students are ready to accept the grades from the teacher. |
B.The writer teaches in Europe for a living. |
C.Students are encouraged to present simple questions. |
D.One’s ignorance will give away in time. |
Social Phobia
It’s natural to feel nervous, or shy in front of others at times. Most people manage to get through these moments when they need to.
It is really sad, isn’t it? But the good news is that people with social phobia can learn to manage fear, develop confidence and communicating skills and stop avoiding things that make them nervous. Of course it’s not always easy. Dealing with social phobia takes patience, courage to face fears and the willingness to practice.
Therapists (治疗师) can help people create a plan for facing social fears and build the skills and confidence to overcome it. And family or friends are especially important for them.
Little by little, someone who decides to deal with extreme shyness can learn to be more comfortable.
A.Friends can overcome their fears. |
B.But for some, the anxiety can be extreme. |
C.They are not able to make eye contact with classmates. |
D.Social phobia makes people lonely or disappointed over missed opportunities. |
E.It also takes a commitment to go forward rather than back away when feeling shy. |
F.Each small step forward helps build enough confidence to take the next small step. |
G.The support from those key people helps them gather the courage to try something new. |
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