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There are two kinds of parents in modern America, says Alison in her recent book, the Gardener and the carpenter. The “carpenter”(木匠) thinks that his or her child can 【小题1】 (shape). The idea is that if you just do the right things, get the right skills and read the right books, you’re going to have the ability 【小题2】 (turn) your child into a particular kind of adult. The “gardener”, on the other hand, is less concerned about controlling who the child will become. Instead, he 【小题3】 (provide) a protected space for the child to explore. The style is all about “creating not only 【小题4】 rich, nutritious but also various and energetic ecosystem”. Gopnik, a psychology and philosophy professor, spent decades 【小题5】 (research) children’s development and found that parents often focus too much 【小题6】 their children’s future. The harm is that parents and their children may become anxious, tense or unhappy. These parents should really reflect on 【小题7】 (they). “We’re so concerned about what these children are going to be 【小题8】 we’re unwilling to give them the right to take 【小题9】 (risk) and explore the world,” she says. Obviously, the 【小题10】 (little) parents worry about their children’s outcome, the better their children may live in life.