Too many people want others to be their friends, but they don’t give friendship back.That is why some friendships don’t last very long. To have a friend, you must learn to treat your friend the way you want your friend to treat you. Learning to be a good friend means learning three rules: be honest; be generous (宽宏大量的); be understanding.
Honesty is where a good friendship starts. Friends must be able to trust one another. If you don’t tell the truth, people usually find out. If a friend finds out that you haven’t been honest, you may lose your friend’s trust. Good friends always count on one another to speak and act honestly.
Generosity (大度) means sharing and sharing makes a friendship grow. You don’t have to give your lunch money or your clothes, of course. Instead you have to learn how to share things you enjoy, like your hobbies and your interests. Naturally you will want to share your ideas and feelings. These can be very valuable to a friend. They tell your friend what is important to you. By sharing them you help your friend know you better.
Sooner or later everyone needs understanding and help with a problem. Something may go wrong at school. Talking about the problem can make it easier to solve. Turning to a friend can be a first step in solving the problem. So to be a friend you must listen and understand. You must try to put yourself in your friend’s place so you can understand the problem better.
No two friendships are ever exactly alike. But all true friendships have three things in common. If you plan to keep your friendships, you must practice honesty, generosity and understanding.
【小题1】Some friendships don’t last very long because________.A.there are too many people who want to make friends |
B.they don’t know friendship is something serious |
C.those who give others friendships receive friendships from others |
D.those who never give others friendships receive no friendship from others |
A.as important as money | B.more important than anything else |
C.something countable | D.the base of a friendship |
A.A friend who gives you his lunch money is a true friend. |
B.Always tell your friend the truth. |
C.Discussing your problems with your friend often helps to solve the problem. |
D.Sharing your mind with your friend is of great value. |
A.Ask your friend for everything. |
B.Don’t tell the truth to your friend. |
C.Share your ideas and feelings with your friend. |
D.Give your lunch money or your clothes to your friend. |
Tears can ruin make-up, bring conversation to a stop, and give you a runny nose.
Tears reduce stress, but we tend to fight them for all sorts of reasons. “
Almost any emotion—good or bad, happy or sad—can cause tears.
When some people become very stressed, however, they can’t cry. They may be feeling shock, anger, fear or grief, but they control the emotion. “Everyone has the need to cry,” says psychotherapist (精神治疗医师) Vera Diamond.
Tears are a sign of our ability to feel. You should never be afraid to cry.
A.People worry about showing their emotions. |
B.The more you cry, the healthier you will become. |
C.Crying is a way that we release built-up emotions. |
D.Sometimes patients participate in crying exercises. |
E.They can leave you embarrassed and without energy. |
F.In certain situation, such as at work, tears are not appropriate. |
G.Many people get uncomfortable when others cry in front of them. |
Two of the saddest words in the English language are “if only”. I live my life with the goal of never having to say those words, because they convey regret, lost opportunities, mistakes, and disappointment.
My father is famous in our family for saying, “Take the extra minute to do it right.” I always try to live by the “extra minute” rule. When my children were young and likely to cause accidents, I always thought about what I could do to avoid an “if only” moment, whether it was something minor like moving a cup full of hot coffee away from the edge of a counter, or something that required a little more work such as taping padding (衬垫) onto the sharp corners of a glass coffee table.
I don’t only avoid those “if only” moments when it comes to safety. It’s equally important to avoid “if only” in our personal relationships. We all know people who lost a loved one and regretted that they had foregone an opportunity to say “I love you” or “I forgive you.” When my father announced he was going to the eye doctor across from my office on Good Friday, I told him that it was a holiday for my company and I wouldn’t be here. But then I thought about the fact that he’s 84 years old and I realized that I shouldn’t give up an opportunity to see him. I called him and told him I had decided to go to work on my day off after all
I know there will still be occasions when I have to say “if only” about something, but my life is definitely better because of my policy of doing everything possible to avoid that eventuality. And even though it takes an extra minute to do something right, or it occasionally takes an hour or two in my busy schedule to make a personal connection, I know that I’m doing the right thing. I’m buying myself peace of mind and that’s the best kind of insurance for my emotional well-being.
【小题1】Which of the following is an example of the “extra minute” rule?A.Start the car the moment everyone is seated. |
B.Leave the room for a minute with the iron working. |
C.Wait for an extra minute so that the steak tastes better. |
D.Move an object out of the way before it trips someone. |
A.To keep her appointment with the eye doctor. |
B.To meet her father who was already an old man. |
C.To join in the holiday celebration of the company. |
D.To finish her work before the deadline approached. |
A.We should buy insurance to make our life better. |
B.Avoiding “if only” can make the author comfortable. |
C.The author must have a good relationship with her children. |
D.It is the most important thing to avoid “if only” in our daily life. |
A.The Emotional Well-being | B.The Two Saddest Words |
C.The Most Useful Rule | D.The Peace of Mind |
I have heard having a good sense of humour often helps in breaking the ice. Also people remember you because of your humour. But I think I don’t have a very good sense of humour. Could you suggest how to build on this?
—Radha Karnik
This is a great question that is unfortunately difficult to answer. I can only give you my views on this topic, which may or may not be correct. I know that my sense of humour developed over time.
When I was younger I was not funny at all; now I can easily make people laugh. At the same time, sometimes I say things that I think are very funny but others do not. Improving humour, I believe, is an ongoing process.
Now, there are various forms of humour and everyone has their own style. Overall, I believe being fluent in a language is very important for being funny. The way we play around with words adds the “funny” tag to a normal sentence.
Also, seeing irony(讽刺) is very important. I think humour is often the link between two unrelated things.
In my experience, laughing frequently and appreciating other people’s jokes are very important. Within these, finding humor in everyday normal situations is the key.
I often notice what is going on around me and say funny things in my head and laugh to myself. That serves almost as practice for when I am in a group. I watch comedy shows and movies and I am sure that has some effect on helping me improve my sense of humour.
And last, having confidence that you are funny is important. There will always be someone funnier than you, which is fine. Just work on building your own style.
Remember, if you are trying to be funny in order to break the ice at a business function, be careful.
In those situations, humour has to be mild and politically correct.
Yours,
Brad
【小题1】What’s RAdha Karnik’s problem?A.He doesn’t have friends. | B.He doesn’t know the functions of humour. |
C.He doesn’t understand others’ humour. | D.He doesn’t have a good sense of humour. |
A.laughter is the best medicine | B.laughter and humour go hand in hand |
C.a sense of humour can be developed | D.a sense of humour helps imipress others |
A.Everyone knows how to appreciate others’ jokes. |
B.Everyone has their own style of humour. |
C.Everyone is as funny as others. |
D.Everyone needs to laugh to themselves each day. |
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