If you’re an un-decider, even the simplest decisions can make your pulse race.
Go for good enough
Since perfectionism and indecision often go hand in hand, you should be moving from a mind-set that “only the best will do” to “good enough is good enough”. It helps to reflect on your original goal. Did you begin the exhausting online shopping to find a toaster that could clean itself, roast carrots and also charge your cellphone? Or were you just looking for something that would brown your bread?
Outsource ( 外包) decisions
Research has shown that choices weaken the willpower and lead to decision fatigue (疲劳). That’s why indecisive people are advised to pick their “battles”.
The 90 percent Rule
When a yes-or-no decision has many pros and cons, try the “90 percent rule”. This involves evaluating an opportunity on a scale from 0 to 100. If your interest falls anywhere below 90 percent, reduce its score to zero and reject it.
If you’re deciding whether to move across the country, imagine you’ve asked your best friend to choose for you. On the big day, she hands you an envelope; inside, it announces you’re leaving next month. Do you feel excited? Or disappointed? Using thought experiments to separate important variables can help you cut through the fog to see clarity.
A.Cut through the fog |
B.Turn to friends for help |
C.You could rely on habits and routines |
D.In other words, be choosy about choosing |
E.Remembering your purpose can simplify the process |
F.Think about how you’d feel if you scored a 65 on some test |
G.And big, life-changing choices can cause a state of breaking down |