The roles we often expect our fathers to play, protector or provider, can make them seem unapproachable.That’s how it was with my dad.He was a ______ person, who was never much of a talker.I didn’t want to ______ his hard shell and had gotten used to it.That brought both him and me the sense of ______.
But when my life took a hit a year ago, things had to ______ .I needed to know how he had found his way, because I felt like I had ______ mine.In a moment of desperation, it occurred to me that sending an email might be the ______.I could speak at a comfortable distance and give him room to ______.
So I wrote to him, telling him about my regrets and fears, and asking him to ______ the similar experience he had undergone.
Two weeks later, it ______ in my inbox with the title handwritten: “GIRLS I LIKED, BY LUIGIC.” Dad had carefully ______ my message, reached back into his memory and made a ______.I closed the email and started to cry.I cried because I wished I had ______ my heart earlier but was grateful it wasn’t too late.I cried because I hadn’t been able to ask him anything about his life in all this time; ______, I had focused on not sharing anything about myself with him.I cried because at 33, in the middle of my own struggles, his letter instantly put me ______.And I cried because in the end, it was so ______: I just had to hit “send”.
We’ve since had many ______.Better yet, he offers up stories ______ without me asking.My problems haven’t been magically ______, but getting to know my dad better and learning to ______ him more has made the tough stuff more manageable and life sweeter.
It’s hard to talk to dads sometimes.I’m glad that I have found a ______ to talk to mine.
【小题1】A.private | B.reasonable | C.confident | D.sensitive |
【小题2】A.question | B.clarify | C.break | D.withdraw |
【小题3】A.responsibility | B.security | C.shame | D.guilt |
【小题4】A.relieve | B.confirm | C.accomplish | D.change |
【小题5】A.ignored | B.lost | C.sought | D.discovered |
【小题6】A.key | B.target | C.routine | D.stage |
【小题7】A.assume | B.avoid | C.adjust | D.admit |
【小题8】A.obtain | B.deliver | C.broaden | D.share |
【小题9】A.remained | B.displayed | C.appeared | D.approached |
【小题10】A.checked | B.considered | C.conveyed | D.consulted |
【小题11】A.judgment | B.promise | C.comment | D.response |
【小题12】A.reflected on | B.appealed to | C.opened up | D.settled down |
【小题13】A.meanwhile | B.instead | C.therefore | D.however |
【小题14】A.at ease | B.in peace | C.under pressure | D.in dilemma |
【小题15】A.obvious | B.appropriate | C.important | D.simple |
【小题16】A.debates | B.exchanges | C.secrets | D.memories |
【小题17】A.occasionally | B.instantly | C.eventually | D.rarely |
【小题18】A.explored | B.concluded | C.solved | D.recognized |
【小题19】A.love | B.convince | C.forgive | D.comfort |
【小题20】A.connection | B.reason | C.benefit | D.way |