It’s not possible to stay together with loved ones all the time. Sometimes family members have to be far away from each other. During that time, they might face something terrible. Although we know what they are suffering, being far away makes it harder to help and comfort loved ones. There is no use worrying a lot about them. Instead, keeping a positive attitude of support is more helpful than getting into worrying about the person. I think it is what I can do to help my loved ones.
My daughter has been working full-time during summer about 10 hours a day. She has to study hard for a big entrance exam. At first, like most people, I wanted to try to solve the problems and try to explain the situation. Was there a better way of time management? Was there a better way of studying for this test? However, that was not always helpful. Sometimes, it even gave more pressure to her. Sometimes it might sound like there was something wrong to improve However, it was just tiring at the end of the day. What would be the kind thing to do in this situation? It was hard to read someone’s mind. I decided to just chat with her online and to send a hug emoji (表情符号) this time. It seemed more suitable than talking about solutions. Giving space can also be an act of help, comfort and kindness
It is fun and meaningful experiment to actively think about kind things to do rather than let it happen naturally. I’ve realized it and I’m grateful for this chance to share online. Give it a try too and you’ll enjoy sweetness.
【小题1】What can we learn from the first paragraph?A.Worry is the best comfort to a loved one. |
B.It is impossible to love someone around us. |
C.The distance helps you do more to loved ones. |
D.It’s no use worrying a lot about loved ones not around us. |
A.By talking about solutions. | B.By explaining all problems. |
C.By buying a gift for her. | D.By giving simple emojis online |
A.To advise people to comfort loved ones as he did. |
B.To tell us the ways to get along with others. |
C.To discuss the rebuilding of personal relationships. |
D.To show distance makes it hard to comfort loved ones. |