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Bill Gates and his wife have been quite deliberate about the model they’ve used to raise their three kids,【小题1】are now 15, 18, and 22 years old. They follow a 1970s “Love and Logic” parenting model. The main idea of their model【小题2】(base) on the idea that parents should attach importance to controlling emotions (情绪), especially minimizing emotional reactions like shouting or scolding kids.

One of the greatest【小题3】(benefit) of applying “Love and Logic” is that it helps us learn how to keep our emotions and our tongues【小题4】control. Aside from controlling hot-blooded parent tempers, the “Love and Logic” model also【小题5】(stress) the importance of showing unconditional love and admiring kids for who they are, not what they achieve【小题6】don’t achieve. Many highly【小题7】 (success) people struggled with grades as kids. What’s most important is that our【小题8】(child)develop good character, curiosity, and problem-solving skills.

The model pushes parents to focus on asking questions of their kids and getting them thinking about how to solve their own problems, instead of【小题9】(feed) them answers.

Gates says the “Love and Logic” method is a far cry from the way he grew up, but he knew he wanted to do things【小题10】(different) with his own kids.