Thinking of my good friends, I sense that my attitudes are totally different towards men and women.

My earliest childhood friend is Donald. In the street was a (an) __ old German truck. No wheels. No doors. Each day, __ we were flying over the Atlantic in that truck our “airplane”，there came that wonderful moment: “Engine __!” I’d shout, “We’ll have to jump out.” Glancing at me，he’d say, “I can’t __!” “Fear not! I’ll drag you to the __.

And when we swam __ the dust, Donald cried “Sharks!” But I always __ him. The next day, changing __，Donald would do the same to me. We saved each other hundreds of times, but when my family really did leave for America, we could do __. We just cried silently as the train __.

These days, Jessica is one of my best friends. Recently we were swimming at a beach in the Atlantic, the __ one I had “flown” over in my German truck with Donald. We were far form shore when we both thought we __ a shark! We began swimming __ toward the shore. Although in __，I fell back to protect her. In the end» the “shark” proved __，but not my deep emotional feeling for my friend. We looked into each other’s eyes and said, “I love you!”

You see with women I could be __       ，emotionally honest and transparent. With male friends, it seemed impossible to __ caring feelings however deep the friendship was. “Am I normal?” I thought to myself. Much to my __，researches show that men and women have very different __ and rational (理性的) processes. I do love all my friends - only the means of expression __.

It had been a month since anything had happened to brighten my day. I had just moved to a(n) _________ town. I missed my family and friends so much that I felt _________ almost everyday.

A week before Halloween, I opened my mailbox and _________ found a bright orange pumpkin inside. It was a jack-o-lantern (南瓜灯). On it wrote the _________: HAPPY HALLOWEEN! But it didn’t _________ where it came from. Who would have done such a(n) _________ thing?

I put the pumpkin on my coffee table, _________ if I would ever discover who had _________ it. Although I was curious, I couldn’t help _________一in my hand was proof (证据) that someone was __________ about me.

As the days passed, I __________ my new life little by little. That jack-o-lantern sat on the coffee table through Halloween and Thanksgiving. That happy little pumpkin made me feel __________ every time I looked at it. When its happy eyes were staring at me on New Year’s Day, I made a __________. Months ago, someone had done something kind that __________ he or she cared. I could do the same.

Can you guess what I did in October? After learning a neighbor was sad about her job __________, I mailed her a beautiful pumpkin anonymously (匿名). On it, I drew a jack-o-lantern face. And wrote these words: HAPPY HALLCOWEEN.

Anger may feel uncomfortable, but it’s also normal and healthy. “A lot of people think they have to _______ their anger,” says Patrick Keelan, a registered psychologist in Calgary, Canada. “But anger is an emotion built into us to signal that _______ needs to be addressed.” When we take notice of that signal and actually correct the problem _______ ignoring it, we’re usually much _______ for it.

Unfortunately, many of us have been conditioned to keep our emotions _______. Increasingly, research is suggesting that this can have long-term _______ on our health. Investigators noticed that people who prevent their emotions tend to have _______ life spans. They’re more likely to die earlier from cancer, _______.

Is it better, then, to scream and yell _______ something makes you very angry? That’s the reason behind the “rage rooms” that have ________ in many cities, where folks are invited to express their ________ by violently smashing stuff in a “safe” environment.

“The theory is that you get the anger out of your system ________ aggressive actions, and it’s cathartic(宣泄情绪的),” says Keelan.

“But the research indicates that when we display our anger aggressively, it can ________ increase the intensity of the anger—________ increase the probability of aggressive actions in the fixture.’’ It doesn’t take much imagination to predict how a furious rampage(暴怒) can affect your ________ with your spouse, your kids or your co-workers.