If you are home-alone, or live alone, and somebody comes to the door, shout out “I got it” so that it seems like someone else is there with you and you are not alone. But actually before that, there are lots of preventive(预防的) actions to take.
Give your apartment a safety check
It’s a good idea to give your apartment a once-over for safety concerns—ideally before you even move in. Complete this safety checklist.
Can any of your valuables be seen from the street?
Can you see who’s at the door without opening it?
Do you have all your mail held at the post office when you travel?
Have all the locks of your doors been changed since you moved in?
Become friends with your neighbors
If you’re shy, then you’d probably prefer anything else to chatting with neighbors. But make an effort to be friendly. In one way or another, your neighbors will be more willing to lend a hand to a friend than they are to help out a stranger in times of trouble.
Be smart about spare keys
Thieves and other illegal types know exactly where to check for spare keys.
So don’t think you’re being clever by hiding them in the mailbox, or underneath a carpet. Instead, you had better leave them to a friend or trusted neighbor.
Always lock the door
Lock your doors, every single time. Even if you’re just going to the garbage dumpster(垃圾大铁桶) quickly, or only stepping inside to catch something you forgot.
It may seem like overkill — especially if you live in a relatively safe district. But it only takes that one moment for someone to steal in.
【小题1】Why does the author advise you to shout “I got it” in Paragraph 1?A.To protect yourself. | B.To answer the door. |
C.To call out loudly. | D.To welcome the guests. |
A.Hide spare keys in the mailbox. |
B.Take all the keys with you if possible. |
C.Leave the keys to someone you trusted. |
D.Have your keys ready as you leave. |
① Never change the locks.
② Close the door in time.
③ Make friends with neighbors.
④ Put spare keys under the carpet.
⑤ Keep valuables seen from the street.
⑥ Have a safety check about the apartment.
A.①②④ | B.②③⑤ |
C.③④⑥ | D.②③⑥ |
Four Habits That Lead to Emotional Security
Can you become more emotionally secure by doing certain things differently?
● Be willing to apologize.
Do you know that refusing to apologize may actually increase your ego (自负)?
● Be willing to accept failure.
Emotionally secure people can recognize and accept failure. This may be why two top schools in England teach failure as part of their curriculum.
● Learn to manage self-criticism.
Self-criticism is a usual stumbling block (绊脚石). It may be the most common psychological hang-up (障碍) in existence.
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Taking a more objective viewpoint on your own life gives you access to the big picture. Emotionally immature people tend to lack thinking and make poor decisions, which will only create more problems to feel insecure about. One solution is to step back and consider the big picture before making decisions.
A.Learn to accept. |
B.Take a big step back. |
C.You need more help than this. |
D.Research suggests that yes, you can. |
E.It gives you a false sense of moral superiority (优越感). |
F.The critical inner voice is common and almost without exception. |
G.Losing or at least losing gracefully is a vital skill for students to learn. |
The quality of our decisions today will determine the quality of our life tomorrow. However, even smart people make stupid decisions.
Step 1: Practice self-awareness.
Self-awareness is a process of discovery, of exploring your inner knowing. Becoming more self-aware can help you understand your wants, needs, and desires as well as your strengths and weaknesses. Studies have shown that self-awareness exercises that encourage you to slow down and relax could also help you to improve your creativity and decision-making.
Step 2:
It takes courage to admit you're wrong after the fact. It takes even more courage to disprove and challenge your own assumptions before the decision. Next time you're faced with a problem or challenge, try not to make unreasonable decision based simply on your personal beliefs and emotions.
Next time you feel absolutely certain about a decision, remember that you may be wrong. Stay open-minded to the possibility that there is a lot more information that you don't know yet. After all, people may easily fall into victims of confirmation biases.
A.Prove yourself wrong. |
B.Have courage to face challenges. |
C.Here are different methods to make wise decisions. |
D.Two simple steps can help you avoid making bad decisions. |
E.There are several mental errors that may affect decision-making. |
F.Instead, seek out all possible ideas that may contradict your current beliefs. |
G.There are many exercises and activities you can do to develop your self-awareness. |
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