We all see and hear about extraordinary people around us and wonder why we can’t be more like them. 【小题1】 I don’t think so. It’s not the big things that make someone extraordinary. It is the small things. Here are some small things that extraordinary people do every day:

【小题2】 My friend’s boss made a huge mistake. However, he bravely apologized to the team for not including them in the decision making. Eventually, he not only gained the respect of his teammates, also gained credit.

They apologize when needed. We all make mistakes, but what makes a person big is when he is ready to apologize. Don’t try to hide behind excuses: “I didn’t mean to say it.” 【小题3】 They are open to criticism (批评). That you’re the boss doesn’t mean you are right every time. It doesn’t mean you have the best idea. Learn to back up your decisions with reason. 【小题4】 By doing this your decisions might invite criticism, but you will also get an opportunity to improve.

They are expressive. They don’t bottle up their emotions. 【小题5】 Then they will criticize someone for not working hard or congratulate someone on their wonderful performance.

How to Develop a Growth Mindset

There are two types of mindset: fixed mindset and growth mindset. A fixed mindset keeps you in a box of your own making. However, a growth mindset is that you believe in the possibility of change and you can learn, develop, and grow. 【小题1】.

Welcome Challenges

Challenges are opportunities for growth. Welcome the challenges you face in life. 【小题2】. If you want to be a better badminton player, you need to play players who are better than you. There is no challenge in playing a player whose skill level is lower than yours.

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It is natural to enjoy praise and be hurt by critical opinions. But you need to live your own life and do what is right for you rather than being pushed about by other people’s views on what you should be doing. Always chasing other people’s approval limits your choices to following what is best for you.

Love Your Critics

Not all criticism is helpful — you are clumsy, for example, labels the person without offering any hint for improvement. Constructive criticism contains suggestions for improved performance and is vital to your learning. For example — 【小题4】. It is critical, but it contains a message for self-improvement. You can change what you do and get better results.

It’s a Marathon, not a Sprint

Becoming an industry expert or a recognized specialist takes time. You invest the time in learning and growing as an ongoing process. You need time to seek out and try new approaches, work with your habits, take classes, and read. 【小题5】.

Libraries are some of the most magical places on Earth.【小题1】. If you are new to using libraries, you might be surprised to learn how much they can do for you. Here’s how to get started.

To take out anything from your local library, you first need a library card, which gives you the right to check out books and other items.【小题2】. When it’s time to return them, you can bring them back or you may be able to renew them to keep them a little longer.

If you’re stuck trying to find a book and can’t remember the exact title or the name of the author, a librarian can likely help you find what you’re looking for.【小题3】. Tell them what books you have enjoyed as well as the subjects that interest and inspire you, and they’ll be able to recommend your next read.   

Libraries are best known for their vast book collections, but they offer even more. You or an adult in your family can also stream movies and TV shows with the help of library apps like Hoopla and Kanopy. There are computers and quiet zones where you can study with few distractions. You may also find free or discounted printing and photocopying services.

Many libraries host free events for young people. You can ask a librarian or check the library’s website for a list or calendar of upcoming activities and sign up with your card.【小题5】.